Collider wrote...
Here's something fun (possibly) to discuss.
Why did your Shepard romance Garrus? Roleplaying wise.
Iris (my MainShep; Colonist War Hero) deals. Something happens, and she always tries to find the resources to cope and move on, be it death, disappointment, bad relationships, etc. Of course, she does have some hastily patched up wounds that can hurt if someone knows which button to push. Her history also made her quite a cynic: she doesn't believe in roses and love at first sight, and emotional talk can have her stumped pretty quickly. Not because she can't feel, but because it's something she doesn't take lightly.
She realized that Kaidan was interested in her pretty quickly, but she never acted on it. Maybe she told herself there would be more time, maybe she simply wasn't interested enough, because he didn't know the right buttons to push. Nevertheless, she did trust him as a teammate and as a friend. As for Garrus, the cynic in her initially found his enthusiasm both amusing and strangely endearing. The fact that he was younger than her and that he clearly looked up to her put her in a somewhat superior position. Yes, she came to trust him, she greatly respected his battle skills and she had a solid friendly-professional relationship with him. But she also felt that she could teach him things and show him the benefits of caution. So no thoughts of romance crossed her mind at that point (at least, not consciously).
Then the Collector attack happened. This time, the death was her own, and that, coupled with the fact that her revival had a whole lot of strings attached to it, was harder to deal with than any of her previous experiences. She'd lost everyone she trusted and cared about, once again, and, on top of that, she was indebted to a group which was involved in terrible things. This was destabilizing, and the fact that Kaidan turned on her because of this hurt her deeply. She thought he knew her better.
Then she met Garrus again, and something clicked. He had matured, come into his own, experienced profound loss: he wasn't the student any longer, life had given his idealism a sound beating and set it askew. She could genuinely empathize with his pain. On top of that, here was someone who trusted her implicitly, who understood her (or at least, tried to, unlike Kaidan), and who even made her laugh, despite all the crap they'd both been through and were going to be in. That slowly set the gears in motion. She started paying a different kind of attention to him, if only subcionsciously at first. The Sidonis experience shook her deeply, made her confused about the depth of her concern for him. But the recon scout conversation triggered an instinctive response. And while it took her by surprise, when she thought about it, it made total sense. This was something worth holding on to, despite all the difficulties and the--"heavy risk, but the priii..." *headshot*--ahem...despite the risks.
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Modifié par Nilfalasiel, 24 mai 2010 - 09:57 .