Statulos wrote...
The joys of being single are overwelmingly heavier, even considering Jae´s post.
Amen to that, I mean I consider myself an EOE(equal opportunity employer) but even when you branch out a bit, in my experience anyways, some women actually repeatedly text my phone over and over again, this is after like 1 or 2 times out, then others wait about a month then start obsessing over marriage, when I say, well marriage aint for me, been there done that, "oh you'll change your mind, I'll make sure of that", and that's when I've had enough, and then it's either a lesson in stalkerism, getting texts like you should really quit smoking, you just bought 2 packs yesterday, really? Following me after the boot has been given? No wonder I smoke so much, an entire region full of possessive, insecure, psychopaths, with nice racks. Great..... And you know before you try and tell me "well marriage is about_______" save your breath I'm not 18 years old, I've been married and have lived a life full of trial and error, trauma, education via life and death experiences, I'm not an idiot, sure I'm not a psychiatrist, but I get the jest that marriage is about, and it "can" be great, but from my experience nah, you can keep it.
Think of it this way, do women like being pushed into sex? no they dont.
So if I'm not being a pushy d-bag about something you're not comfortable with, then why cant you respect that hey this dude is obviously not gonna flex for an IDEA about getting married, maybe if you leave me be, and tap the brakes a bit, well on down the road if we last that long, maybe then maaaaaaybe, we can get engaged, and then even further down the road if we havent grown tired or fed up with eachother, then marriage will probably work.
Modifié par Operative84, 19 février 2010 - 07:59 .