newcomplex wrote...
In order for a thing to be "sexual" in any way shape or form, it needs to reproduce through sex. Liara reproduces though mindmelding, and using genetic material as a catalyst for mutation in the self fertilizing fetus. She is Asexual. She does not engage in sex with either gender to reproduce.
I think you're conflating "sexual reproduction" with "sexual behaviour." The Codex and game lore completely support your point that Asari do not need intercourse or even physical contact to reproduce - they use telempathic interface with their partner's genetic memory to stimulate a degree of genetic randomization in their offspring. For Commander Shepards of whatever gender that romanced Liara T'Soni, when they went through the Mu Relay to Ilos, they did not engage in sexual reproduction. They had sexual intercourse. Liara was more likely to get pregnant while interpreting the Cipher (Asari-Human-Prothean gene randomization time!) than during the sensual romp... but romp she did. As you acknowledge, it wasn't a ******- or heterosexual encounter for *her*, but it was one or the other for Shepard (with a rather open-minded xenophiliac twist).
Not every Shepard in the game experience went that route with Liara, though. I completely support your thesis that the experience of traveling with Commander Shepard, experiencing the validation of her archaeological theories (and then some!), the death of her mother, her first several experiences with telempathic intimacy with another person, and everything else was undoubtedly a deeply emotional and life changing experience for Liara. I doubt Shepard's sexual orientation - whatever it is - would change that one bit.
For those who are offering the argument that Shepard is first and foremost the character of her/his authors at BioWare - to a good extent you're right. They get to be the storytellers who establish the parameters of what Shepard's Story is like and the choices we get to make as we play through it. At the same time, Shepard is in no way their character exclusively! They write the characters, put a lot of work (and probably a fair bit of loving care) into fleshing out the different possibilities of how they act in the interest of telling a good story and in the hopes that their story will resonate with us: the Gamers. They've succeeded! We love their games. We play them over and over, we fiddle away our time on their message boards because we were so affected by the story and the world and the game that we want *more* and choose this as a place wherein we pursue that.
Those of us in support of same-sex romance options are telling the storytellers: this is a feature that would be really awesome.