Alandros wrote...
SurelyForth wrote...
So I think one can muster at least a slight bit of sympathy and understanding that she's been stabbed in the back more times than she can count and unless she is the littlest bit cutthroat she is ousted out of power completely if not dead. Personally the strength and lengths that character is willing to go to see things done impressed me a bit.
I'm sorry, but how many people stab her in the back before the PC meets her? Her father and Howe. That's it. Eamon doesn't do anything to her but suggest Alistair has a stronger claim to the throne (and Eamon owes her nothing). Even if the PC doesn't mention her to Cauthrien, and even if you say that you'll support her, she'll still betray the PC at the Landsmeet for suggesting that Loghain be executed, which is (setting-wise) how traitors and murderers are punished.
Of course, being backstabbed by her father, that garners no sympathy? Maybe I should've emphasized the quality instead of the quantity but that's a minor difference. Also it's clear in the RtO that Eamon has been suggesting Cailan marry someone else so I'd find it hard to believe that this hasn't revealed itself in her interactions with him at all. Various people are out to remove her from her position as Queen in which she has ruled for 5 years. Of course she's going to be defensive of that, she'd be an idiot not to. If she isn't a weak willed pansy then I'd expect her to do at least some harsh things to keep herself in that position. I mean the PC Warden is confronted with many different situations in which they have to make hard decisions that may seem harsh or cutthroat, but necessary. Duncan is a perfect example of this... various things Duncan does are pretty heartless and nasty, but necessary in his mind and to his goal. He demands a human noble join the grey wardens in exchange for their life, instead of saving them (while the PC's parent is dying lol). That's more cold and manipulative than anything Anora does. Yet most people still respect Duncan because they can see his intention and that he's willing to do the hard things to get what he needs done. Anora is no different.
The difference is that Duncan is forthright about it.
He doesn't say "Oh no, I won't make you be a grey warden, come on I'll save your life for free," and then later on tie you down and force the chalice to your mouth.
He says flat out, "These are your choices."
If Anora had said flat out that she wouldn't support The Warden/would support Loghain when you gave her answers she didn't like, instead of pretending like she would still offer you her full support, she wouldn't garner the hatred she does.
That's the difference between betrayal and just being manipulative. It's not the manipulations leading UP to her betrayal that bother people. Most of us wanted to kill Howe anyway, so having her manipulate us into it isn't so bad, and we're still the ones who pulled the trigger on him regardless. However, having her promise her support or at least imply that she'd be happy with any outcome that removes Loghain from power, and THEN appearing at the landsmeet to destroy The Warden's position?
That's an entirely different league than what Duncan does.