BostonVamp wrote...
I don't know. I always went for the guys that were funny, witty & intelligent. Quirky was also helpful. They were all also musicians, oddly enough. Love is strange - can't be forced. Met my husband on-line. Tore-up the phone lines and was smitten with each other before meeting. Established lots more in common before any physical attraction. I think we sometimes let the physical get too much in the way. Connect on a deeper level first and the physical will take care of itself.
I'm really terrible at the whole seducing and flirting thing hehe!
I'm not a shy person but around a girl I like I feel like a little kid... I somehow still manage to act normal and even speak a few lines and even a joke now and then but I can never bring myself to ask someone out

lol did walk up to this one girl I fancied in school once but never spoke to before at the train station when the whole train schedule was mucked up and told her that, that was the train she needed. We got talking and became really good friends, then eventually she got a boyfriend and I told her by e-mail how I felt and I got an e-mail back which said she didn't feel the same way but wanted to stay friends regardless... So we stayed friends for several years until it just died out...