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Ryzaki

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Temper_Graniteskul wrote...

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I only talk for Jacob for his loyalty mission and I'm a **** to him the whole way XP


If it weren't for that Heavy Pistol upgrade, I wonder how many people would even bother to do that!

I still don't see why we can't throw squad members out of the airlock. There are plenty of them, who is going to miss a few? :devil:


I was personally hoping for a better use of the trash compactor in Zaeed's room... come on! Can't you imagine the dialogue Jacob could have recorded as Shep was pushing the button? :ph34r:

"You're a hard wo/man to get to knooooooww..." *Ke-CHUNK*

I could see Shep whistling a jaunty little tune as s/he looked out the window at the debris, too.


that would be too much win. :wub:

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I'm okay with Same Sex romance in the games. I am not, however, okay with turning pre-existing characters bisexual. It doesn't make sense for anyone on your ship to be(besides Samara and Kelly, but they don't count.) Now, if we get a new squadmate in the third game who's bisexual, I'm fine with that. I'm NOT fine with turning Tali, Garrus, or Kaidan bisexual in the third game.

It's ultimately a matter of opinion as to whether a character 'makes sense' as bisexual, though.

Given Kaidan's responses to either Shepard in ME1, it makes perfect sense to me that he was bisexual, even if MShep couldn't court him. Ashley less so, but I admit I didn't pay a whole lot of attention to her. Garrus could go either way - since so much of the relationship seems based on respect and admiration for Shepard, I don't think it unreasonable that he might also be attracted to MShep in the same way as FemShep. Personally, I don't think the Tali romance makes any sense at all except in the 'hero listened to me and rescued me, now I have an adolescent crush' sense; letting it play out as a romance is just...not right.

But then, I also generally oppose the addition of new squadmates and LIs in ME3. I think there's already plenty of characters to work with, and introducing more would both minimize the impact of decisions even more than ME2 already did, and further inhibit any feeling of continuity. Given how the ME2 story could play out I suppose more crew is inevitable, but that doesn't mean I have to like it. <_<

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On the subject of new crew members, I think our choices in the first 2 games should have something to do with who we get



Hendel Mitra, who has been brought up quite a few times, for example would not join Shepard under any circumstances if Shepard chose to side with cerberus at the end of ME2, due to reasons that I can't really get into because i guess it could be considered spoilers for the books



Let's just say Hendel and Cerberus do not get along

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Its hard to say that adding someone as a romance option (particularly those who were originally intended to BE a romance option before a single person over-ruled the rest of the ME2 team and forced them to remove it) would 'turn them bisexual' when in fact, for example, Jack already 'is' openly bisexual, and Tali repeatedly flirts with and even ultimately propositions FemShep. Obviously Miranda doesn't do any of those things, but neither does she say or do anything that would suggest she's opposed to a romance with FemShep either. So its really all about how you want to interpret things, I think the ME2 team had it best, leave them open to be romance options and let the player decide whether they want to do the romance or not, they were right and the over-ruler was wrong, simple as that.



If you see Miranda as straight (and even if you want to see Jack or Tali that way, and ignore everything that clearly states otherwise) you should be free to do so, and if you don't, then you should be free to do that. Its the same as the rest of the game, its all about choices, and having the freedom to choose whatever you like best. If I prefer a character straight, I'll play that way, and if I prefer a character not straight, again, I'll play that way, and so long as everybody has that option then everybody will end up happy, because they'll make the decision that they like best.



In regard to the new characters issue, you really 'have' to have at least a couple new characters as LIs, just to make things extra interesting, and don't forget a lot of folks who play ME3 won't have played ME1 or ME2 and thus won't have any special connection to the existing LIs. I'd really like to have the option to build EDI a robot-body, and for her to be an LI (and if Shepard doesn't end up with her, I'd want Joker to) . Obviously Joker himself should be a possible LI also, simply because everybody likes Joker, and why not? Beyond that I think they should focus on the existing LIs, especially Liara and Tali (and I would 'really' like there to be a way to end up with BOTH Liara and Tali, they're my favorites, I don't want to have to choose just one) :) .

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As has been brought up before, no character *is* any specific orientation. No one has explicitly said they only like one sex or the other.

So it is not 'turning' anyone anything.

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PseudoEthnic wrote...

I'm okay with Same Sex romance in the games. I am not, however, okay with turning pre-existing characters bisexual. It doesn't make sense for anyone on your ship to be(besides Samara and Kelly, but they don't count.) Now, if we get a new squadmate in the third game who's bisexual, I'm fine with that. I'm NOT fine with turning Tali, Garrus, or Kaidan bisexual in the third game.


This I will never get. People are so against it, yet... why? It doesn't destroy their character at all. It's not like they go after every single human male and female they lay their eyes on... it's that they are attracted to Shep. What people seem to forget is that... MaleShep and FemShep aren't connected. If garrus goes for FemShep... Garrus is straight, but if he goes for MaleShep that doesn't make him, not straight. It means he's still trying humans... because he is attracted to who and what Shep is. Geeze... it's not like making him bi-sexual would destroy the universe or even his character. Same with any other. Each person that plays through their games, has a different version of the "character" that is Garrus. If you don't make your shep do something to cause X to happen for Y... then Garrus's character stays the same for you. The only thing that adding an option for s/s... is just that: an option. It allow someone else to futher change the characterization for THEIR story, not yours. It would never affect you if that's what you wanted.

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Ryzaki wrote...

Temper_Graniteskul wrote...

MagicalSarai wrote...

I was personally hoping for a better use of the trash compactor in Zaeed's room... come on! Can't you imagine the dialogue Jacob could have recorded as Shep was pushing the button? :ph34r:

"You're a hard wo/man to get to knooooooww..." *Ke-CHUNK*

I could see Shep whistling a jaunty little tune as s/he looked out the window at the debris, too.

that would be too much win. :wub:

That right there would be the "prize"... B)

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MagicalSarai wrote...

Ryzaki wrote...

Temper_Graniteskul wrote...

MagicalSarai wrote...

I was personally hoping for a better use of the trash compactor in Zaeed's room... come on! Can't you imagine the dialogue Jacob could have recorded as Shep was pushing the button? :ph34r:

"You're a hard wo/man to get to knooooooww..." *Ke-CHUNK*

I could see Shep whistling a jaunty little tune as s/he looked out the window at the debris, too.

that would be too much win. :wub:

That right there would be the "prize"... B)


You forgot to draw out the i. The priiiize. :lol:

Seriously I wish we could get a good number with how many femsheps actually romanced him. That would be enlightening.

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Ryzaki wrote...

Seriously I wish we could get a good number with how many femsheps actually romanced him. That would be enlightening.


That's a good idea... I'm tempted to start a poll, but I'm uncertain how to phrase the question.

If I simply ask 'As FemShep did you romance Jacob?' that is a little too vague. What constitutes 'romancing' him? How 'far' would you have to get for it to count?

How about 'Whilst playing as FemShep did you fully play out the romance with Jacob?' Is that sufficiently unambiguous?

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The Uncanny wrote...

Ryzaki wrote...

Seriously I wish we could get a good number with how many femsheps actually romanced him. That would be enlightening.


That's a good idea... I'm tempted to start a poll, but I'm uncertain how to phrase the question.

If I simply ask 'As FemShep did you romance Jacob?' that is a little too vague. What constitutes 'romancing' him? How 'far' would you have to get for it to count?

How about 'Whilst playing as FemShep did you fully play out the romance with Jacob?' Is that sufficiently unambiguous?


Yeah that's good.

Also I love the MShepxJacob sex scene. LOL at MShep's rape face in the vid. :lol:

Also I just read a MShepxJoker fanfic and I loved this line that Joker said to MShep.

Oh what the heck I'll quote a huge chunk because its all <3 this is not my fanfic its a Fanfic Called Constants by the talented author
Universitas  on FFN.


Angst… Against his better judgment, Victor said, "I've spilled mine on you countless times. It's… only fair you get the chance, too."

"Really, Commander, it's…" Joker sighed. "****. Guess there's no hiding anything from you." He slowly approached the evac shuttle bay, the one Victor had shoved him through just before the last bombardment blasted Victor into space. "This is where I… made the biggest screw-up of my life."

"I'm not sure I follow," Victor said, taking a step towards him.Joker ran a hand across the bulkheads, a hand that balled up into a fist within a few moments. "Two seconds, Commander. That's all you needed to get into the shuttle. But…" He turned his head towards the helm. "I had to be an idiot and try to save the ship even when you were right and it was lost." Then, his gaze drifted to the floor, and his voice lowered to something barely over a whisper. "Instead, I lost a lot more than the Normandy.
And it was my fault."


oh another part was snipped for spoilers. Sorry. Don't want any trouble and here's the rest.

Victor remembered all too well. His frustrations with the Illusive Man and Cerberus as a whole had reached a breaking point, and he chose to vent at Joker. "This isn't my mission. All I am is just the
Illusive Man's pawn."
he had said.

"It's why I… why I acted like everything was normal. Figured that since everything else changed over the last two years—the new crew, your old team, your new squad, the  Normandy—at least one thing had to stay the same for you. I guess that was gonna be me."



Oh Joker. <3

Anyway link to Fanfic if you want to read and leave a review is here

Modifié par Ryzaki, 23 avril 2010 - 01:02 .


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Okay. Let's see how this goes. Should be interesting...

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GAH! I hate formatting. >_>

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MagicalSarai wrote...

PseudoEthnic wrote...

I'm okay with Same Sex romance in the games. I am not, however, okay with turning pre-existing characters bisexual. It doesn't make sense for anyone on your ship to be(besides Samara and Kelly, but they don't count.) Now, if we get a new squadmate in the third game who's bisexual, I'm fine with that. I'm NOT fine with turning Tali, Garrus, or Kaidan bisexual in the third game.


This I will never get. People are so against it, yet... why? It doesn't destroy their character at all. It's not like they go after every single human male and female they lay their eyes on... it's that they are attracted to Shep. What people seem to forget is that... MaleShep and FemShep aren't connected. If garrus goes for FemShep... Garrus is straight, but if he goes for MaleShep that doesn't make him, not straight. It means he's still trying humans... because he is attracted to who and what Shep is. Geeze... it's not like making him bi-sexual would destroy the universe or even his character. Same with any other. Each person that plays through their games, has a different version of the "character" that is Garrus. If you don't make your shep do something to cause X to happen for Y... then Garrus's character stays the same for you. The only thing that adding an option for s/s... is just that: an option. It allow someone else to futher change the characterization for THEIR story, not yours. It would never affect you if that's what you wanted.


It just feels awkward to me for the most time. Plus, I like to talk to people without leading them into thinking that I want to be in a relationship.

#5839
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Explain what exactly you mean by it feeling awkward, please.



Also, yes, we *all* like being able to talk to crew without them wanting to jump you. Hence why we have discussed better ways for romance over all to be implemented.



Just because you dislike that the crew sometimes thinks you are coming on to them because you want to be friendly does not mean that choices should not be given to people. That is just silly. That would be like removing all romances to stop that from happening.

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Bioware should just add a checkbox at character creation in ME 3 where you can select Shepard's sexual orientation between straight, bi and gay to open up dialogue options throughout the game. It would be just like checking for character gender or race in NWN or DA:O dialogues. Sure it would require just a little more scripting for Bioware employees but hey, they are getting paid. With a system like that, people couldn't complain about NPCs offending them by flirting with their Shep. Even if ME 3 doesn't have something like that, it would be a good idea for future games to further define a player's custom character. It could, of course, go beyond the character sexual preference into likes, dislikes, phobias, ect. Getting a different line or two now and then would feel rewarding to players and add tremendously to replayability.

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The Uncanny wrote...

Okay. Let's see how this goes. Should be interesting...


Wow... last I checked your poll it was a large percent that said, no. Like 80%... at least I'm not alone in thinking that it was way too... uncomfortable.

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MagicalSarai wrote...

The Uncanny wrote...

Okay. Let's see how this goes. Should be interesting...


Wow... last I checked your poll it was a large percent that said, no. Like 80%... at least I'm not alone in thinking that it was way too... uncomfortable.


It certainly is a heavy risk... :pinched:

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The Uncanny wrote...

MagicalSarai wrote...

The Uncanny wrote...

Okay. Let's see how this goes. Should be interesting...


Wow... last I checked your poll it was a large percent that said, no. Like 80%... at least I'm not alone in thinking that it was way too... uncomfortable.


It certainly is a heavy risk... :pinched:


I just couldn't stand his character. He annoyed me... and even when you ignored his romance, he was still weird. :blink:

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MagicalSarai wrote...

If garrus goes for FemShep... Garrus is straight, but if he goes for MaleShep that doesn't make him, not straight. It means he's still trying humans... because he is attracted to who and what Shep is. Geeze... it's not like making him bi-sexual would destroy the universe or even his character.


I don't like the idea of characters being intentionally changed to appease the part of the fanbase that mistakes these games for dating sims. I feel the same way about Tali and Garrus suddenly being "revealed to be" attracted to their respective opposite sex Shepards. It cheapens not only these characters but the game as a whole because I'm left with the feeling that there's really no particular vision behind who these characters are and they'll be changed for stupid reasons. Sorry. I wouldn't have one bit of a problem with the idea of any of these characters being homosexual or bi if it had always been an established part of their personalities, but if it's tacked on after the fact because people are demanding it, it feels to me like the writers don't really give a damn who these characters are.

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spacehamsterZH wrote...

MagicalSarai wrote...

If garrus goes for FemShep... Garrus is straight, but if he goes for MaleShep that doesn't make him, not straight. It means he's still trying humans... because he is attracted to who and what Shep is. Geeze... it's not like making him bi-sexual would destroy the universe or even his character.


I don't like the idea of characters being intentionally changed to appease the part of the fanbase that mistakes these games for dating sims. I feel the same way about Tali and Garrus suddenly being "revealed to be" attracted to their respective opposite sex Shepards. It cheapens not only these characters but the game as a whole because I'm left with the feeling that there's really no particular vision behind who these characters are and they'll be changed for stupid reasons. Sorry. I wouldn't have one bit of a problem with the idea of any of these characters being homosexual or bi if it had always been an established part of their personalities, but if it's tacked on after the fact because people are demanding it, it feels to me like the writers don't really give a damn who these characters are.

Being interested in good dialogue and decent character interaction within the romances Bioware includes in their games, and discussing opinions on how improvements could be made to them, does not mean that anyone considers this a 'dating sim.' Diverse content and realism (to a point) should not be limited only to combat physics - it should carry over to the non-combat portions of the game as well, and that includes the inter-party relationships (romance and non-romance). That doesn't make ME as a whole a 'dating sim,' any more than attention to the physics and weapon design make the game a 'combat sim.'

This thread discusses one aspect of the ME games. It is not required to include discussion of other topics regarding gameplay, characterization, story continuity, or anything else in order to make it clear that it's for discussion of one aspect of the ME games. Asking for changes and making suggestions in this area is no different from complaining about the replacement of the overheat mechanic with ammo, requesting co-op play or space battles, or commenting on how character model animations or biotic/tech combat could be improved.

As for the last bit, there's some disagreement on what exactly constitutes "if it had always been an established part of their personalities." Some, like Collider, consider only the finished game when making that judgment. Others, like myself, look at content that was developed then either removed or not implemented for the final game, like Kaidan/Ashley, or partially implemented even in the final game, like Tali, as reasons to support including those characters as s/s LIs for ME3 or DLC. Ultimately, though, we don't really know what the writers actually planned for these characters - or even if they all agreed on what the characters should be like. All we have to go on are the files that made it into the game and the ones left stranded on the discs.

If some of the writers came out later and said 'we meant for Ashley and Kaidan to be open to romances with both male and female Shepards from the beginning, but were vetoed,' would you consider adding that quality back in to be unacceptable retconning? Especially if the only reason it was added back in was because some very vocal players demanded it, independent of what the writers had intended?

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Temper_Graniteskul wrote...
Being interested in good dialogue and decent character interaction within the romances Bioware includes in their games, and discussing opinions on how improvements could be made to them, does not mean that anyone considers this a 'dating sim.'
(snip)


Strike a nerve, did I?

There is a potential argument in here about how a relatively unimportant subplot feature of ME1 was expanded to about three times its original size and far beyond its capacity to be interesting (especially given the habitually ******-poor writing in every single one of the romance subplots, seriously, the dialogue is all laughable and you can basically bang everyone if you're "nice" to them, which is especially hilarious for characters like Jack and Miranda) because it was "controversial" and thus contributed to the game's success and because people clamored for the ability to stick their willy-wang into and/or open up their hoo-hah for absolutely everything that can walk on its hind legs, but that would only lead us into a boring, cyclical debate about "intention", and we're dangerously close to that territory already, so let's just leave it at "strike a nerve, did I" and note in passing that this has been one hell of a run-on sentence right here.

If some of the writers came out later and said 'we meant for Ashley and Kaidan to be open to romances with both male and female Shepards from the beginning, but were vetoed,' would you consider adding that quality back in to be unacceptable retconning? Especially if the only reason it was added back in was because some very vocal players demanded it, independent of what the writers had intended?


Oh boy, who invented Uncle Hypothetical Straw-Man to the party? I don't pretend to know what's going on in the Bioware writers' heads, and I don't particularly want to know either. For what it's worth, I think it's just as retarded that the m/m and f/f content that was practically finished for ME1 was removed because someone got cold feet or gay Kaidan didn't focus test right, but that's all completely beside the point. Allow me to rephrase my "idea of who these characters are" wording to something that implies less about author intention.

Good writing, to my mind, establishes a sense of reality and integrity to its characters. The illusion that Garrus is Garrus and Miranda is Miranda and whatever character traits I haven't discovered yet have always been there and aren't just being made up as we go along. Finding out about Miranda's insecurities and her protectiveness of her sister makes a reasonable amount of sense based on what you know about the character when the discovery comes. Adding bisexuality and an attraction to Maleshep to Kaidan now that he's been established as who he is wouldn't make any sense and seem entirely gratuitous.

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spacehamsterZH wrote...

Temper_Graniteskul wrote...
Being interested in good dialogue and decent character interaction within the romances Bioware includes in their games, and discussing opinions on how improvements could be made to them, does not mean that anyone considers this a 'dating sim.'
(snip)


Strike a nerve, did I?

There is a potential argument in here about how a relatively unimportant subplot feature of ME1 was expanded to about three times its original size and far beyond its capacity to be interesting (especially given the habitually ******-poor writing in every single one of the romance subplots, seriously, the dialogue is all laughable and you can basically bang everyone if you're "nice" to them, which is especially hilarious for characters like Jack and Miranda) because it was "controversial" and thus contributed to the game's success and because people clamored for the ability to stick their willy-wang into and/or open up their hoo-hah for absolutely everything that can walk on its hind legs, but that would only lead us into a boring, cyclical debate about "intention", and we're dangerously close to that territory already, so let's just leave it at "strike a nerve, did I" and note in passing that this has been one hell of a run-on sentence right here.


I'm willing to bet it wasn't your point that struck a nerve but rather the pomposity with which you expressed it, implying that those interested in romantic subplots in-game were somehow deluded enough to confuse it with a dating simulator. <_<

Romantic subplots have always been an aspect of Bioware games. I'm willing to bet that their increased importance in the second installment had very little to do with "controversy" as the only controversy any of the previous romances created was feigned outrage at the lesbian romance with Liara, and even that was so ridiculous it's barely even worth mentioning.

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The outrage wasn't even at the F/F romance it was at the side boob. Oh noes! Nudity.



I bloody hate Fox News. >_>

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Actually from what I remember the outrage was mostly about the fact that it was 100% hardcore pornography where you could control every movement in graphic, juicy detail. There's no outrage like outrage over things that don't exist.

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spacehamsterZH wrote...

Actually from what I remember the outrage was mostly about the fact that it was 100% hardcore pornography where you could control every movement in graphic, juicy detail. There's no outrage like outrage over things that don't exist.


I'm pretty sure it was even called a rape simulator at one point. Never underestimate a journalists' ability to blow things out of proportion -- and this is in NO WAY limited to the folks at Fox News.