Tazzamann wrote...
I think people might be reading to much into this, surely a damsel in distress is a woman needing to be saved? We can get technical and pedantic about it, but wether or not talis out there fgihting the good fight like the crazy gal she is, shepard needs to rescue her. A lot. Not just from the geth, or Sarens thugs, but in her trial as well. I like Tali, but she gets herself into sh*tloads of trouble. Or is at least ordered into it, regardless she is a damsel (a woman) in distress (needing help). All of the characters needs shepards help at some stage, Tali probably needs it more often than most.
Damsel in Distress is not considered a positive quality in female characters.
That's why the Talimancers are so keen to try and prop up Liara as the "real" damsel, and ignoring all the trouble Tali gets into. Despite Liara having only one "damsel" moment compared to Tali's four. And Liara actually rescuing Shepard in the comic (even though GrimDarking her character basically destroyed Liara for me).
It doesn't fit into their vision of the "perfect" Tali, I guess.

Similarly, Garrus is by far the bigger whiner, comparing him and Kaidan, and despite this, because Garrus is considered cooler than Kaidan by fanboys (and Garrus fangirls), the unfortunate Mr. Alenko gets slammed as being "whiny". Due to sharing a voice actor with a character they hated in the KOTOR games.