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[Dark Lilith]

Seagloom wrote...

- Having once been convicted for pedophilia, murder, or rape.
- Having been accused but not necessarily convicted of any of the above.
- Drug addiction
- Bigotry
- Racial prejudice or prejudice against LGBT individuals
- Anyone under 25 is out
- Bad hygiene
- Hates kids
- Has no sense of humor
- Has a history of cheating
- Is only out to have fun (i.e; not looking for a serious relationship)
- Lacks any sense of romance
- Holds political or religious views diametrically opposed to mine (This person could still be a friend, but I couldn't date them. I'm referring to extreme difference of opinion here.)
- Treats others around them poorly. (I don't care if I'm treated like royalty by them. If you're a jerk to everyone else, you're a jerk to me too.)

love your responces,add to those
-no pretty boys or mama's boys
-Ego-maniacs
-can't dance-maybe,I can always teach someone
-smokes
-cruel to animals
-makes crude or demeaning jokes at the expense of someone else

[Godak]

"Smokes" would fall under "Drug Addiction".



"Cruel to animals" and "Demeaning jokes" might fall under "Treats others poorly".



I don't have to worry about pretty boys/mama's boys. Manliness, FTW!

[Statulos]

Godak wrote...

"Smokes" would fall under "Drug Addiction".

"Cruel to animals" and "Demeaning jokes" might fall under "Treats others poorly".

I don't have to worry about pretty boys/mama's boys. Manliness, FTW!

Daddy´s girls are equaly disgusting.

[Godak]

Statulos wrote...

Godak wrote...

"Smokes" would fall under "Drug Addiction".

"Cruel to animals" and "Demeaning jokes" might fall under "Treats others poorly".

I don't have to worry about pretty boys/mama's boys. Manliness, FTW!

Daddy´s girls are equaly disgusting.

...And sometimes butch.

[KnightofPhoenix]

I may have a pretty big list of what I don't like in a girl:

- Tattoos
- piercings (hate them)
- drinks
- got drunk / gets drunk / alcoholic
- goes "clubbing"
- smokes
- completly irreligious
- doesn't know what's appropriate and what's not in public
- promiscuous
- can't take a joke
- jokes excesively
- laughs really loudly (especially in public)
- ignorant / uneducated (I don't want to get involved with a girl that knows nothing)
- drug addict
- Has an annoying, high pitched voice
- Completely unreliable
- not responsable
- Can't be a mother
- hair too curly or too straight
- Isn't moody (I love mood swings)
- too nice
- too much of a "yes" girl
- unpolite
- dirty / messy
- older than me by a big margin (say 4 years older)
- can't cook
- carries an ipod wherever she goes
- plays with her cell all day
- isn't responsable with her money / bills
- too emotional
- unemotional
- too serious
- can't take anythign seriously

And that's about it. What I can think of now at least.

[Statulos]

Do people like that exist, Knight?

I prefeer to keep my list small since I know my preferences will change over the time (as the do) and my levels of tolerance for this or that also change. Sure, there are absolute "no goes", but they´re so few and apply to so few poeple that they´re quite difficult to apply.

I´d never date a fascist, but I have met like two fascist ladies during my whole life...

Modifié par Statulos, 28 février 2010 - 01:32 .

[KnightofPhoenix]

Statulos wrote...

Do people like that exist, Knight?

Hopefully not.
Each point is meant to be taken seperately.

[Godak]

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Hopefully not.
Each point is meant to be taken seperately.

...I almost think that makes it worse. We may be listing things, but it's like you're actually sitting in front of someone with a clip board, making notes.

Modifié par Godak, 28 février 2010 - 01:37 .

[Statulos]

Celrath wrote...

I'd say
-Tentacles
-Having sold one's soul to an evil deity

Tentacles fine. But selling your soul to a Lower Power is, in fact, an amazing feature for any female (or male)!

[Godak]

Celrath wrote...

I'd say
-Tentacles
-Having sold one's soul to an evil deity

Question: What did they get in return for selling their soul?

[KnightofPhoenix]

Godak wrote...

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Hopefully not.
Each point is meant to be taken seperately.

...I almost think that makes it worse. We may be listing things, but it's like you're actually sitting in front of someone with a clip board, making notes.

Yes I am very meticulous, what can I say. 

[Godak]

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Godak wrote...

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Hopefully not.
Each point is meant to be taken seperately.

...I almost think that makes it worse. We may be listing things, but it's like you're actually sitting in front of someone with a clip board, making notes.

Yes I am very meticulous, what can I say. 

Hmm...honesty. Good, good... *Jots something down*

[Armchairsquid]

[quote]Godak wrote...

[quote]Celrath wrote...

I'd say
-Tentacles
-Having sold one's soul to an evil deity


[/quote]

Question: What did they get in return for selling their soul? [/quote

Whatever they want id imagine:O

[Statulos]

Godak wrote...

Celrath wrote...

I'd say
-Tentacles
-Having sold one's soul to an evil deity

Question: What did they get in return for selling their soul?

This loousy t-shirt...

[Godak]

Statulos wrote...

Godak wrote...

Celrath wrote...

I'd say
-Tentacles
-Having sold one's soul to an evil deity

Question: What did they get in return for selling their soul?

This loousy t-shirt...

Well, it is very flattering!

[Statulos]

She certanly didn´t got a good deal: Impaled Nazarene´s Nihility shirt has a far more constructive message in the back.

On the other hand, at least she should have got one of these

Modifié par Statulos, 28 février 2010 - 01:52 .

[Caozen]

-I'm not exactly a fan of extremely optimistic girls. As cute as they can be, it's just too much. This is usually paired with a mouth that never stops moving, too. No thank you. I want a chill girl.
-I hate it when they can't stand my music, and are overly vocal about it. All while expressing their insane double-standard of opinion when I do the same to them. This is one of the big ones.
-Girls who feel stupid when I talk to them, and are sincere about it. I want someone who I can happily argue with. Not to be mistaken for ignorance.
-Girls who aren't remotely interested in art of some form or another. Any girl who dates me is going to be around it a lot, so this is pretty baseline.

...I doubt that's it but it's all I can think of right now.

Modifié par Caozen, 28 février 2010 - 02:29 .

[Borschtbeet]

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

I may have a pretty big list of what I don't like in a girl:

- Tattoos
- piercings (hate them)
- drinks
- got drunk / gets drunk / alcoholic
- goes "clubbing"
- smokes
- completly irreligious
- doesn't know what's appropriate and what's not in public
- promiscuous
- can't take a joke
- jokes excesively
- laughs really loudly (especially in public)
- ignorant / uneducated (I don't want to get involved with a girl that knows nothing)
- drug addict
- Has an annoying, high pitched voice
- Completely unreliable
- not responsable
- Can't be a mother
- hair too curly or too straight
- Isn't moody (I love mood swings)
- too nice
- too much of a "yes" girl
- unpolite
- dirty / messy
- older than me by a big margin (say 4 years older)
- can't cook
- carries an ipod wherever she goes
- plays with her cell all day
- isn't responsable with her money / bills
- too emotional
- unemotional
- too serious
- can't take anythign seriously

And that's about it. What I can think of now at least.

You have good tastes dude.  I especially like the I-pod/Cell phone part, definetly agree.

[Loerwyn]

How about "How datable are you? List your qualities"

[SleeplessInSigil]

Borschtbeet wrote...

What do you think would make an otherwise great guy/girl undateable?

[Petty] Hate for anyone or anything.

[Godak]

OnlyShallow89 wrote...

How about "How datable are you? List your qualities"

That would quickly turn into a "How much can you stroke your e-peen?" contest.

[Amberyl Ravenclaw]

Seagloom wrote...

- Having once been convicted for pedophilia, murder, or rape.
- Having been accused but not necessarily convicted of any of the above.
- Drug addiction
- Bigotry
- Racial prejudice or prejudice against LGBT individuals
- Bad hygiene
- Hates kids
- Has no sense of humor
- Has a history of cheating
- Is only out to have fun (i.e; not looking for a serious relationship)
- Holds political or religious views diametrically opposed to mine (This person could still be a friend, but I couldn't date them. I'm referring to extreme difference of opinion here.)
- Treats others around them poorly. (I don't care if I'm treated like royalty by them. If you're a jerk to everyone else, you're a jerk to me too.)

I'll steal your ideas from you.

Also, some more dealbreakers, in no particular order: 

- Inability to take care of self / be independent.
- Unable to manage money.
- Sexist / chauvisnistic.
- Lack of empathy.
- Irresponsible (in many different ways).
- Possessive / controlling.
- Lack of boundaries - social, emotional, mental, even physical. I need my space sometimes.
- Willful ignorance.
- Inability to consider multiple perspectives.
- Smoking - more or less strongly discouraged because I have breathing problems.
- Places excessive emphasis on body image and physical appearance.
- Cannot take criticism.
- Oversensitive. I can be tactful, but I also want to be honest without having to worry about my partner falling to pieces.
- Chronic anger. Because I grew up with a father who was capable of scaring the hell out of me although he never hit me. I don't want to have to fear my partner or walk on tenterhooks all the time, which I think is a very sad basis for a relationship.

Modifié par Amberyl Ravenclaw, 28 février 2010 - 03:51 .