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[Statulos]

Amberyl Ravenclaw wrote...
- Chronic anger. Because I grew up with a father who was capable of scaring the hell out of me although he never hit me. I don't want to have to fear my partner or walk on tenterhooks all the time, which I think is a very sad basis for a relationship.

Freudians would love this and will make a mine out of it. Personaly I think that´s BS and it makes sense completely.
I think we humans look in our respective significant others (yes, in plural) not what we lack, but what actually reinfoces what we deeply are.
The interesting thing is that we are paradoxical creatures who are many, many things.

[xODD7BALLx]

-clingy

-violent

-materialistic

-turns her nose up at people as though she is superior to all

-jealousy

-one-sided

-ignorant

-lack of respect for anything she doesnt enjoy herself

-pushy

-bossy

-lazy

-****y

-alcoholic

-keeps score/tabs

-invasive

-insecure enough to find programs to install on MY PC to find out not only my email password, but my bank, my cell phone carrier account, pretty much anything requiring a password.

-loud(screams at people or me for no reason)

-selfish

-compulsive liar

-cheater

-turncoat

-lack of affection/empathy

could go on and on, been in numerous relationships, and dated lots of women, been married, divorced, so yeah lots of badness to list. Only a few of these are deal breakers to me, however having multiples bad qualities will still break it off.

[Lucy Glitter]

Dark Lilith wrote...

Seagloom wrote...

- Having once been convicted for pedophilia, murder, or rape.
- Having been accused but not necessarily convicted of any of the above.
- Drug addiction
- Bigotry
- Racial prejudice or prejudice against LGBT individuals
- Anyone under 25 is out
- Bad hygiene
- Hates kids
- Has no sense of humor
- Has a history of cheating
- Is only out to have fun (i.e; not looking for a serious relationship)
- Lacks any sense of romance
- Holds political or religious views diametrically opposed to mine (This person could still be a friend, but I couldn't date them. I'm referring to extreme difference of opinion here.)
- Treats others around them poorly. (I don't care if I'm treated like royalty by them. If you're a jerk to everyone else, you're a jerk to me too.)

love your responces,add to those
-no pretty boys or mama's boys
-Ego-maniacs
-can't dance-maybe,I can always teach someone
-smokes
-cruel to animals
-makes crude or demeaning jokes at the expense of someone else

Apart from smoking, definitely agree with this! God damn I hate pretty boys. I couldn't date a guy who rearranged his hair and looked in a mirror more than me.

So generally I think this list comes down to, "Not being a total jackass."

Modifié par Lucy_Glitter, 28 février 2010 - 04:00 .

[Godak]

Lucy_Glitter wrote...

Apart from smoking, definitely agree with this!

You'd be fine with someone who smokes? I'd seriously throw up. No, really, I have minor coughing fits in places where cigarette smoke lingers.

[Lucy Glitter]

Godak wrote...

Lucy_Glitter wrote...

Apart from smoking, definitely agree with this!

You'd be fine with someone who smokes? I'd seriously throw up. No, really, I have minor coughing fits in places where cigarette smoke lingers.

I used to smoke. My dad smoked. I like the smell, though I admit I felt quite disgusting after having a stick myself, I don't mind. 

Not everyone who doesn't smoke minds the smell... 

[Gorthaur X]

Well, I smoke, so I guess that xplains my general lack of romantic success!



...And while I've never read Goodkind's books, I watch Legend of the Seeker.

[Panderfringe]

Armchairsquid wrote...

Panderfringe wrote...

OnlyShallow89 wrote...

I can't even date.
Relationship or nothing.

How would you even start one?

ive started a few by falling into their beds drunk:devil:

Look, a night in the drunk bin and a restraining order is not a good basis on which to form relationships.

Also, lots of you guys a terribly specific.

Modifié par Panderfringe, 28 février 2010 - 05:14 .

[Godak]

Lucy_Glitter wrote...

Godak wrote...

Lucy_Glitter wrote...

Apart from smoking, definitely agree with this!

You'd be fine with someone who smokes? I'd seriously throw up. No, really, I have minor coughing fits in places where cigarette smoke lingers.

I used to smoke. My dad smoked. I like the smell, though I admit I felt quite disgusting after having a stick myself, I don't mind. 

Not everyone who doesn't smoke minds the smell... 

No, I understand that. My dad used to smoke, too. I was just asking why you'd be fine with someone who smokes, and I was stating why I wouldn't (I have a reason other than "it's morally wrong". Haha!).

[RE0305]

Heh, and to think i started smoking thinking it was cool and girls would dig me......

[Ponce de Leon]

No smoking. Everything else is expandable. I absolutely skip ANY girl that smokes. Wanna ruin yourself your life? That's fine for me, just don't ruin it for me as well...

[Fexelea]

This thread is hilarious.



Love is funny. The person you end up with might as well have half of the many no-nos everyone is listing. Unfortunately we cannot be entirely rational when falling in love, and often many incompatible aspects get balanced out by what we like.

[Sarevok Anchev]

Dark Lilith wrote...

Seagloom wrote...

- Having once been convicted for pedophilia, murder, or rape.
- Having been accused but not necessarily convicted of any of the above.
- Drug addiction
- Bigotry
- Racial prejudice or prejudice against LGBT individuals
- Anyone under 25 is out
- Bad hygiene
- Hates kids
- Has no sense of humor
- Has a history of cheating
- Is only out to have fun (i.e; not looking for a serious relationship)
- Lacks any sense of romance
- Holds political or religious views diametrically opposed to mine (This person could still be a friend, but I couldn't date them. I'm referring to extreme difference of opinion here.)
- Treats others around them poorly. (I don't care if I'm treated like royalty by them. If you're a jerk to everyone else, you're a jerk to me too.)

love your responces,add to those
-no pretty boys or mama's boys
-Ego-maniacs
-can't dance-maybe,I can always teach someone
-smokes
-cruel to animals
-makes crude or demeaning jokes at the expense of someone else

Are you talking to me? 

[Loerwyn]

Gorthaur X wrote...
...And while I've never read Goodkind's books, I watch Legend of the Seeker.

I watch it too! It's awesome

[Dark Lilith]

Sarevok Anchev wrote...

Dark Lilith wrote...

Seagloom wrote...

- Having once been convicted for pedophilia, murder, or rape.
- Having been accused but not necessarily convicted of any of the above.
- Drug addiction
- Bigotry
- Racial prejudice or prejudice against LGBT individuals
- Anyone under 25 is out
- Bad hygiene
- Hates kids
- Has no sense of humor
- Has a history of cheating
- Is only out to have fun (i.e; not looking for a serious relationship)
- Lacks any sense of romance
- Holds political or religious views diametrically opposed to mine (This person could still be a friend, but I couldn't date them. I'm referring to extreme difference of opinion here.)
- Treats others around them poorly. (I don't care if I'm treated like royalty by them. If you're a jerk to everyone else, you're a jerk to me too.)

love your responces,add to those
-no pretty boys or mama's boys
-Ego-maniacs
-can't dance-maybe,I can always teach someone
-smokes
-cruel to animals
-makes crude or demeaning jokes at the expense of someone else

Are you talking to me? 

no,but then I like you and I make acceptions for special people

[Sarevok Anchev]

Dark Lilith wrote...

Sarevok Anchev wrote...

Dark Lilith wrote...

Seagloom wrote...

- Having once been convicted for pedophilia, murder, or rape.
- Having been accused but not necessarily convicted of any of the above.
- Drug addiction
- Bigotry
- Racial prejudice or prejudice against LGBT individuals
- Anyone under 25 is out
- Bad hygiene
- Hates kids
- Has no sense of humor
- Has a history of cheating
- Is only out to have fun (i.e; not looking for a serious relationship)
- Lacks any sense of romance
- Holds political or religious views diametrically opposed to mine (This person could still be a friend, but I couldn't date them. I'm referring to extreme difference of opinion here.)
- Treats others around them poorly. (I don't care if I'm treated like royalty by them. If you're a jerk to everyone else, you're a jerk to me too.)

love your responces,add to those
-no pretty boys or mama's boys
-Ego-maniacs
-can't dance-maybe,I can always teach someone
-smokes
-cruel to animals
-makes crude or demeaning jokes at the expense of someone else

Are you talking to me? 

no,but then I like you and I make acceptions for special people

Oh, thanks!

*kicks a puppy, laughs and ignites a big cigar*

[Dark Lilith]

cigars are OK,especially Cuban,they smell heavenly.Don't kick puppies or I come to your house and kick you in the shins!

[Sarevok Anchev]

Dark Lilith wrote...

cigars are OK,especially Cuban,they smell heavenly.Don't kick puppies or I come to your house and kick you in the shins!

Have i mentioned to you how much i like the Atlantic Ocean?

[Ponce de Leon]

Reading that hurts.

[Dark Lilith]

Sarevok Anchev wrote...

Dark Lilith wrote...

cigars are OK,especially Cuban,they smell heavenly.Don't kick puppies or I come to your house and kick you in the shins!

Have i mentioned to you how much i like the Atlantic Ocean?

my passport is in order.Tell me where and I'll fly over.kick you and then you can show me the sites where you live!

[Sarevok Anchev]

Dark Lilith wrote...

Sarevok Anchev wrote...

Dark Lilith wrote...

cigars are OK,especially Cuban,they smell heavenly.Don't kick puppies or I come to your house and kick you in the shins!

Have i mentioned to you how much i like the Atlantic Ocean?

my passport is in order.Tell me where and I'll fly over.kick you and then you can show me the sites where you live!

Well... that seems to be a invitation for a date?

[AshedMan]

-If they smoke.

-If they were Republican.

[Statulos]

Dark Lilith wrote...

cigars are OK,especially Cuban,they smell heavenly.Don't kick puppies or I come to your house and kick you in the shins!

This is interesting... How can you know if that is technicaly ilegal in the US?
And yes, few things beat a good Cohiba.

Fexelea wrote...

This thread is hilarious.

Love
is funny. The person you end up with might as well have half of the
many no-nos everyone is listing. Unfortunately we cannot be entirely
rational when falling in love, and often many incompatible aspects get
balanced out by what we like.

My father used to say that love is as blind as a widow mole, and the more I live, the more correct I realize he is.

Modifié par Statulos, 28 février 2010 - 05:55 .

[SargeantRenegade]

Statulos wrote...

Dark Lilith wrote...

cigars are OK,especially Cuban,they smell heavenly.Don't kick puppies or I come to your house and kick you in the shins!

This is interesting... How can you know if that is technicaly ilegal in the US?
And yes, few things beat a good Cohiba.

I prefer a full-bodied Bolívar myself, though they're a nightmare to get hold of here.

I have one Guantanamera left right now, and I'm saving that for after dinner.