AngryFrozenWater wrote...
ModerateOsprey wrote...
Alraiis wrote...
hangmans tree wrote...
It's strange to me how many male gamers play with female toons. I myself like to identifie with a character, so playin' a FemShep is out of the question...
So does this imply most of male gamers would like to be women for some reason? 
Identifying with a character and wanting to become that character are two different things. The people who play RPGs for the second reason tend to have this view that its weird for a male player to play a female character, because they apply their approach to RPGs to everyone. Speaking for myself, however, making an RPG character is not about creating an alternate self, it's simply about creating an interesting character and developing their story. Playing FemShep is thus no more "out of the question" than watching Aliens and thinking Ripley kicks ass.
Absolutely bob on. I like girls with guns and swords and stuff in movies and so don't see the the difference at all. My list of fave female characters is a long one....I would start with Trinity..etc etc. ME and DA gives me the ability to create my own - why wouldn't I want to do that?
I think it's also important which view you have: First person feels more like it is me. Third person is more like controlling another character.
Yes, exactly. I think you have identified the heart of the matter here.
When I play COD, MW2, Flashpoint - it is me. Not wanting to start a 'what is an RPG?' argument, I can find the feeling of immersion very deep in those games - even though these games are not perceived to be RPGs in the traditional sense.
One of my favourite games is Rainbow 6 Vegas 1/2. Not only was the combat very visceral, but it also had a rather good character creator for its time. Story wasn't all that bad either. The perspective is 3rd person and so I absolutely made a female character. I didn't perceive this lass to be me, but someone I had created - when playing, her personality emerged by her actions. This experience of watching a character emerge and grow is much deeper in ME and deeper still in DAO.