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#101
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superimposed wrote...

Wow... if girls get turned on by elbowing people in throats, I should pick fights more often.


don't forget, you have to do it stylishly.  Get some new clothes and take some ballet classes...then elbow and punch away!!!

Image IPB  yeah, it's totally just me. haha.

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HaloKT wrote...

6.) Garrus... the Turian vigilante. Basically Batman in space. Now
Garrus is an LI I actually like. He's strong, got his own mind and
opinions (and cannot be talked out of assassinating Sidonis unlike
other crewmates who can be coerced into doing whatever you want them
to) and isn't afraid to admit that he's not perfect. Overall I think he
does have a very strong personality, and if I would romance any male
crewmate at all, it would easily be Garrus. Because he's just that
awesome :P


Uh... Yes you can talk him out of it.  You just remain in the way of his shot and keep talking, eventually Garrus understands that there's no reason to kill him because he's already suffering horribly for his crime. 

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GodWood wrote...

HaloKT wrote...
the female LIs besides Tali are kind of bland as well.

If we take a look at the romance options:
3.) Jack... well. I'm not into angst-filled teenage emos either. And that's basically what she is. She's just as insecure as Miranda, but instead ofgoing for the "perfect and infallible" facade, she puts on an "OMG I IZ DANGEROUS B*TCH!" facade. Unless Miranda, she can't even be befriended, making her character for Femsheps even more shallow and uninteresting than Miranda's, if such a thing is actually possible. If she's back in ME3 I really hope she finally grows up and leaves her angst behind. I'd rate her as the single most uninteresting LI available. Probably because I'm more into girls who are upfront about their problems and are willing to resolve them, rather than dwell on them.

-sigh-
I really dislike when people say Jack is a whiney angsty, teenage emo.
Its as if they completely ignore the fact that since childhood she was locked in a cell with absolutely no human interaction, was only brought out to be tortured, experimented on or drugged and forced to kill other children, then upon leaving the facility she was used and abused by multiple pirate/slaver/cult gangs and gang raped.

I think shes entitled to be a little pissed off.
EDIT: from the Jack fan thread, a picture of Jack's surgical scars from childhood.
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That's actually a really nice picture.  Wonder if you can convince her get those tats removed and put some clothes on, then grow her hair out if you romanced her proper.  Helping her through those issues and all that, she wouldn't need them anymore, right?

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Wait... what?



What you're saying is, you want to turn jack in to Mary Sue?



*shudder*

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Brass_Buckles wrote...

I really don't see how female Shepards are disadvantaged romantically. We get Garrus and Thane (okay, so he's kind of emo and Shepard's replacing his dead wife, AND he's dying, but Thane is still a reasonably cool character. Except when he's doing his purple prose flashbacks. Please no.). Garrus is, meanwhile, a good sort, and his dialogue all along implies that even if Shepard isn't looking for more, he is hoping for more than just "blowing off steam" with her. Hence why he's so nervous (well, add to that the fact that he's concerned about not being the same species). Just look how crushed he gets when you send him away in that final scene...

Yeah, we don't get a great human option in ME2, but I suspect the devs wanted us all to be loyal and stick to Kaidan. (Instead, I'm re-playing ME1 to NOT romance him.)


Kaidan? You serious? I don't think I could any of my Femsheps have romance Kaidan, he's almost as bad as Jacob (though at least he doesn't look like that rapper and can talk without that cliché african-american voice... come on, why can't they give as some non-cliché black guy like Anderson?! He was cool!)
So anyways, my Femsheps will probably always end up with Liara, maybe I will do one playthrough with Kaidan, but that will be tough, since his softie-bull**** talk is really annoying...

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HaloKT wrote...
It's pretty obvious it isn't the same deal. However, I just tried to make a point that other - more interesting, less shallow - characters at least try to overcome their emotional baggage and come out a stronger person. I don't blame Jack for being a victim. That's horrible and I wouldn't wish that upon anyone. However, I do blame Jack (read: the wrtiters responsible) for not even wanting to overcome her past. Probably because that is her focal point in getting the attention she so desperately craves.
But then again, choice of partner is highly subjective. I'm simply not the replacement mother type *shrugs*


There is some stuff in Jack's loyalty mission, that pretty much turns a number of fundamentals, that have laid the groundwork for her psyche, on their heads. That is going to take some time to digest and, just as in physics; the stronger the force of the emotional impact, the stronger the immediate reactive resistance to it - there's your lack of wanting. Shepard's posse is certainly not alack for other characters in denial.
You don't change people overnight, outside of Hollywood storytelling, which admittedly ME is, especially when your dealing with a lifetime-so-far of bitterness and mistrust, borne out of exploitation and betrayal - soon you get selective in your perception and unconciously opts to see anything as confirmation for your dim world view.
Male Shepard gets to vent the pressure cooker a little bit, but that's just the beginning of a long and arduous journey, which will likely never end. Somebody is going to have much patience if this broken one is ever going to learn to trust another.

One might argue that Jack should really be less fit for the mission, following her loyalty mission. Before she was just a psycho with a grudge - after, she's in emotional turmoil.

Exactly. It's a movie! I sort of expect movie storytelling and character progression. But that doesn't happen with Jack. She doesn't change one iota, hence she's flat and uninteresting. I guess we just have to agree to disagree on that one.

Oh and I do actually believe that she craves attention like no other crewmate. It's the whole point of her "oooh look at how badass I am!" thing.

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CmdrFenix83 wrote...

HaloKT wrote...

6.) Garrus... the Turian vigilante. Basically Batman in space. Now
Garrus is an LI I actually like. He's strong, got his own mind and
opinions (and cannot be talked out of assassinating Sidonis unlike
other crewmates who can be coerced into doing whatever you want them
to) and isn't afraid to admit that he's not perfect. Overall I think he
does have a very strong personality, and if I would romance any male
crewmate at all, it would easily be Garrus. Because he's just that
awesome :P


Uh... Yes you can talk him out of it.  You just remain in the way of his shot and keep talking, eventually Garrus understands that there's no reason to kill him because he's already suffering horribly for his crime. 

To be honest, I never explored that option. I just accepted that it was important for him. So yeah, I was wrong. You can talk him out of it... pity though. I'd have respected him more if you couldn't...

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superimposed wrote...

Wait... what?

What you're saying is, you want to turn jack in to Mary Sue?

*shudder*


Make her a normal person after helping her through all her issues?  I think that'd be wonderful.  I'm not saying everyone should, but the option would be nice.

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HaloKT wrote...

CmdrFenix83 wrote...

HaloKT wrote...

6.) Garrus... the Turian vigilante. Basically Batman in space. Now
Garrus is an LI I actually like. He's strong, got his own mind and
opinions (and cannot be talked out of assassinating Sidonis unlike
other crewmates who can be coerced into doing whatever you want them
to) and isn't afraid to admit that he's not perfect. Overall I think he
does have a very strong personality, and if I would romance any male
crewmate at all, it would easily be Garrus. Because he's just that
awesome :P


Uh... Yes you can talk him out of it.  You just remain in the way of his shot and keep talking, eventually Garrus understands that there's no reason to kill him because he's already suffering horribly for his crime. 

To be honest, I never explored that option. I just accepted that it was important for him. So yeah, I was wrong. You can talk him out of it... pity though. I'd have respected him more if you couldn't...


You should hear what Sidonis says.  Shepard just talks to Sidonis, and can hear Sidonis' replies through her mic.  Garrus eventually lets him go.

#110
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Just have Elusive Mans baby, it's the hotttest romance for fem shep anyway. Who isn't attracted to power?

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I agree that the operatives are the cliched sexy lets have skexy time options, and i find them boring, as for the two femshep options, i personally think that thane is a nice choice, but garrus, his final speech makes the romance worth it.

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Sorry if this has been mentioned before, but Jacob tells either Shepard that "She (Miranda) deserves a better man than I" not an exact quote, but anyway, my point is who would hook up with him after he basically says hes not good enough for Miranda, but he wants to be with FemShep, meaning he thinks hes good enough for her.

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King_Asta wrote...

Sorry if this has been mentioned before, but Jacob tells either Shepard that "She (Miranda) deserves a better man than I" not an exact quote, but anyway, my point is who would hook up with him after he basically says hes not good enough for Miranda, but he wants to be with FemShep, meaning he thinks hes good enough for her.


Which is mildly insulting to the player :P

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King_Asta wrote...

Sorry if this has been mentioned before, but Jacob tells either Shepard that "She (Miranda) deserves a better man than I" not an exact quote, but anyway, my point is who would hook up with him after he basically says hes not good enough for Miranda, but he wants to be with FemShep, meaning he thinks hes good enough for her.


I'm guessing this was a faux pass by the writers.
The "needs a better man" line is obviously meant as an alpha male endorsement for ManShep, who can be Miranda's "better man", but is kept for FemShep, making Jacob look like an idiot and highly insulting to any FemShep naive enough to romance the bland porn star.

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The Angry One wrote...

King_Asta wrote...

Sorry if this has been mentioned before, but Jacob tells either Shepard that "She (Miranda) deserves a better man than I" not an exact quote, but anyway, my point is who would hook up with him after he basically says hes not good enough for Miranda, but he wants to be with FemShep, meaning he thinks hes good enough for her.


I'm guessing this was a faux pass by the writers.
The "needs a better man" line is obviously meant as an alpha male endorsement for ManShep, who can be Miranda's "better man", but is kept for FemShep, making Jacob look like an idiot and highly insulting to any FemShep naive enough to romance the bland porn star.

lol. Completely agree. the quirks of writing for a game with multiple plot paths. You want to have as few paths possible open at a time, but you also dont want it obvious you are using the same thing for two different choices. I would hate to be them. Dont even wnt to think what their design diagram looks like. [treasure map on acid?]

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I would buy any game where the design of the game was based on a design diagram that was in essence a treasure map on acid.

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Calsong wrote...

Anyone else feeling Female Shepards are romantically disadvantaged? 


No, a very sincere "No." 

Unless you are talking about the lack of sexy scenes, in which case "maybe".  :P

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I like Jack the way she is even if she's still a b*** after her loyalty mission. I can't imagine seeing her all friendly just because she's loyal, acting like we are the best friends in the entire universe and that we should hold hands and frolic on a fairy background with rainbows and unicorns . At least she thanks you, appreciates the help and is always straight with you.I don't see a flat character in that.

I would rather say Miranda is the one who craves for attention the most.


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Calsong wrote...

Anyone else feeling Female Shepards are romantically disadvantaged? 


Not really. Garrus' forehead rest seemed a bit weird but otherwise heartfelt. Thane's romance is superb. Jacob could be (imo) the weakest one even though I love him as a character, but then again I'd say that about Miranda. Sooo, /shrug.

The Angry One wrote...

If you honestly think there aren't legitimate reasons to dislike Jacob as an LI and instead focus on his race, then you are the racist, not I.


Sarcasm filter fail?

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Wow, I'm so impressed at the high level of psychological analysis here on the forum. After reading all the posts I'm looking at some of the characters differently. When I wrote I had only had a romance with Garrus and it was...awkward and touching but still a bit wierd as afemShep.



So I felt Thane might give the same strangeness as he too is an alien. As someone pointed out Shepard act a bit like a ho, or actually like a "disagreeable" man using his status on Jacob to get him on his back. It didn't fit my Shep.



Another realization reading all the very good posts is that I really lack friendship development in the game. If I play femShep after the loyalty mission's debriefing all fem characters have too much work to even talk to me for a while. It feels so strictly professional. It's of course the opposite if you play the maleShep. Then the guys go all "don't have time to speak to you, got work".



I do also apologize to all fem Soldiers out there for making it sound like I mean 50% of you are lesbians. I actually meant that I thought it was 50% chance My fem Shep Soldier was lesbian.



Dramaturgically for a story to be interesting something has to be turned over entirely. This is where some of the team member's lack depth. Like Jack, after the loyalty mission it would have been more credible if she actually became loyal but disillusioned. She's had revenge and an empty void spreads inside her making her apathetic and under performing until she decides not to be a victim (with the guidance/coaching from Shep) and comes out on the other side with a rebuilt self esteem. I think the other characters could interact more too. Wouldn't it be cool if when you go down a LI track it leaves the field open for the NCPs to form relations and friendships in the wake sort of.

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superimposed wrote...

Well, actually, a lot of them haven't been through horrible stuff, nothing even remotely close to being raised from childhood to be an unstoppable killing machine.

Grunt and Thane.

Calsong wrote...

I'm playing through second time as a
female Shepard and find my options for a romance is Thane the lizard
man, the armor skinned Garrus, or Jacob, the most boring, and only
human man in the team! (except from Zaed who can't be romanced
precumably because he's old. He's a hell lot more interesting than
Jacob)

re: Thane and Garrus: You're shallow.

I'm satisfied with the romances. Meh on Thane, bleh on Jacob, HELL YEAAARRRR on Garrus.

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Breaking news: Most straight male gamers feel that the female's option in Love Interest, isn't as good as their female counterparts. More at 11.

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HaloKT wrote...
Oh and I do actually believe that she craves attention like no other crewmate. It's the whole point of her "oooh look at how badass I am!" thing.


I agree.  There needed to be a 'grow the **** up' sort of character development for Jack.  She can keep the tattoos or whatever, but she needs to become a little more mature to be respected, imho.

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Still think that FemShepxMiranda should have happened, though.

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Terraneaux wrote...

Still think that FemShepxMiranda should have happened, though.

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 A FemShepard would have lived int he shadow of Miranda's perfection and would pale in comparison to her.