screwoffreg wrote...
UsagiVindaloo wrote...
I will say that, although I dearly loved the Tali romance, I was a bit surprised how quickly it went from, "Let's start a relationship," to "Let's have sex." Perhaps I'm a bit old fashioned, but it seemed very sudden, with no establishing period, no feeling out the new relationship, etc. I know you knew Tali beforehand, but it was jarring to have sex so immediately injected into discussion of a relationship. How about, you know, just dating for a while, Tali? :-)
Well, considering it is a suicide mission, there is not much time for candles and wine. Also Tali is a virgin and probably has ridiculous Quarian hormones pumping through her body. Everyone wants a bit of Shepard!
This is true. I suppose part of the reason it felt jarring with Tali but not with other potential LIs is the, ah, preparation involved. As a result, the other relationships can progress at a more organic, "spur of the moment" pace. It doesn't feel weird for Miranda to have one last huzzah in the engine room, or Jack to come to you in a moment of vulnerability, or Jacob to sneak into the captain's cab... ok, that was a little weird, but the priiiize... None of them really have to talk about sex ahead of time (Jack discusses sex a lot but in a more general way that makes sense with her character), so it all feels reasonably natural.
Tali, unfortunately, can't be spontaneous and natural due to the issues with her suit and infection. Bioware decided to play into that by showing some of her concerns, having her need to do some research etc. Unfortunately, as a result, the pacing felt very borked:
SHEPARD: You're not selfish, Tali. I have the same feelings for you. I want to be with you.
TALI: Oh! Wow! Alright, let me see how to strip off my suit and sex you rotten.
SHEPARD: Wait, aren't we going to have the sweet and slow, "Wow, we share feelings! We're a couple now!" thing?
TALI: YOUR SKIN AGAINST MINE, SHEPARD. NAO.
I think I would have preferred it if they'd had Tali not be so sex-crazed earlier on, but had her show up in your cabin announcing extremely nervously that she'd taken the supplements and that, since they were about to fly off to the suicide mission, she wanted to be with Shepard. A bit of dialog about the dangers, precautions, whatever, and then go at it. Or just keep Mordin's guide to safe sex. ;-)
For what it's worth, from what I've seen, the Garrus romance actually does all this right. Yes, they start talking about sex very early, but it makes sense from the context ("reach and flexibility") and while there's discussion about research, it still felt a bit more natural than Tali going on about "skin".
My two cents, of course.