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If people are being opressed by violence there is usually no peaceful way out, as the other side has ignored the peaceful route completely, why should those who chose the chantry be forced to choose what the others want, they could have negotiated, but no it seems that they chose violence, hell I doubt people would complian if someone stopped mugabi in zimbabwe, either way people are going to be hurt might aswell be the bully and not the victim. If you leave the dwarves then the dwarves will be in a civil war and one side wiped out, atleast if the channtry are involved it minimizes the loss of people who are the victims, lets face it the dwarves in the chantry didnt start the violence the dwarves who didnt like the chantry did.
So, by this logic, the best option for Thedas is for some distant elven civilization to show up and wipe out the Chantry for oppressing the elves for so long who've just been trying to do their own thing?
The Chantry mirrors historical religion in a particularly ruthless approch to self-propagation. When in the minority it shows a face of gentleness and peace, crying out for reconciliation. When it becomes the majority it becomes a source of violent oppression and judgement. Most religions fall into this cycle of behaviors but it's a very crafty and manipulative one. When you can't win, you play the martyr. When you can win you play the 'speaking on behalf of God/'the common good' role in why you're oppressing everyone else.
Religion as a concept isn't bad. It's human nature to be curious about and try to understand what exists beyond our perceptions. Building a personal relationship with the divine so to speak. In practice though it tends to end up pretty crappy, especially larger organize religion. People use it as an excuse to portray their personal opinions and beliefs as some sort of uncontestable fact based on a 'truth' that is not proven but that is demanded be taken on faith.
It's about borrowed credibility. When someone, be they some yahoo on a forum or an entire government or military force, says that they are acting under the auspice of 'Divine Right' they are attempting to justify a behavior that otherwise is and should be viewed as abhorrent. Taking rights away from someone or denying them, committing acts of violence and oppression, these are things that we as human beings are generally able to identify as inappropriate. By saying that we're following our holy book of choice or some sort of 'uncontestable divine authority' we attempt to justify that which is otherwise unjustifiable. Debates on ethics and faith defy the concept of proof and thus are always personal. People attempt to use religion to borrow uncontestable moral authority and force their personal opinions on others.
If god wants to me hate someone or condemn someone or something or otherwise make a fellow human being of mine less god can come tell me in person. Having someone with a vested interest in making this sort of decision happen to mention that oh, by the way, the divine agrees with him and thus if I disagree with him clearly I'm evil....
well, almost universal in human history that's proven to be a load of crap and a bad idea.
The Chantry is right in the concept of trying to promote peace and the betterment of people. It is bad in the way that most organized religions tend to be abused and promote abuse.