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Sylvius the Mad wrote...

November Cousland wrote...

Vaeliorin wrote...

*On a serious note, we're a bit more socially conservative in the Midwest.  Miss/Sir/Ma'am is generally the preferred form of address.


I grew up in Texas calling people sir and ma'am. I spent a summer in Illinois once and Ma'am was horribly offensive to most of the women I met there. I was unable to get out of the habit and so I pissed off a lot of nice ladies.

I find it so strange when I'm in the US and people call me sir.

"Good morning, sir."  Good morning, ma'am."

Why not just "good morning"?  Why do we need that address tacked on the end?


How about...Good Morning , ser!

See, I knighted you, just like that.<3

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Sylvius the Mad wrote...

November Cousland wrote...

Vaeliorin wrote...

*On a serious note, we're a bit more socially conservative in the Midwest.  Miss/Sir/Ma'am is generally the preferred form of address.


I grew up in Texas calling people sir and ma'am. I spent a summer in Illinois once and Ma'am was horribly offensive to most of the women I met there. I was unable to get out of the habit and so I pissed off a lot of nice ladies.

I find it so strange when I'm in the US and people call me sir.

"Good morning, sir."  Good morning, ma'am."

Why not just "good morning"?  Why do we need that address tacked on the end?


It depends what part of the country you're in.  Here in the Great White North, sir and ma'am aren't used nearly as often as places farther south.  In the Deep South (my particular experience was in SE TX, nearly into LA), if you don't use sir/ma'am for someone who is older than you or someone considered worthy of extra respect (for lack of a better term here) like teachers, doctors, police/firefighters, etc., it's considered extremely rude.  When I lived in southeast TX, it took me awhile to adapt being called 'Ma'am' by someone older than me because I was a doctor.  I suspect some people thought I was being rude until I realized what was different, adapted to the culture there, and started using sir/ma'am a lot more. 

Off on a tangent, I've learned over time that you can never be too polite.  You may not get your way as quickly with people as you might by being horribly rude, but you will get your way consistently more often by being extra polite.  Having worked in a service industry my whole life, I've found people want to go out of their way to help polite people, even if it might take a bit longer to get there.  People want to drop rude people like poison.  That's human nature.  I have to be professional with rude people (though even I have my limits and will kick someone out of the office if they're being abusive), but I'll go far more out of my way for someone who's polite and nice.  Plus, the work day is so much better when everyone's happier. 

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Like I said, English has no propoun that shows deference by itself (in Spanish is tú for standard you and usted for respectful you) so I basicaly use sir and ma´am on a normal basis since it´s the closest you can get to the way I´d express myself in my own language.

Besides, if they feel unconfortable on you being too polite, they will tell you about it without being disturbed (generaly) while the other way round is not the same.

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November Cousland wrote...

Sylvius the Mad wrote...

November Cousland wrote...

Vaeliorin wrote...

*On a serious note, we're a bit more socially conservative in the Midwest.  Miss/Sir/Ma'am is generally the preferred form of address.


I grew up in Texas calling people sir and ma'am. I spent a summer in Illinois once and Ma'am was horribly offensive to most of the women I met there. I was unable to get out of the habit and so I pissed off a lot of nice ladies.

I find it so strange when I'm in the US and people call me sir.

"Good morning, sir."  Good morning, ma'am."

Why not just "good morning"?  Why do we need that address tacked on the end?


How about...Good Morning , ser!

See, I knighted you, just like that.<3


I'm taking it one step further.

Bann Godak. Image IPB

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Yeah; ban that kid! :devil:

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Jae Onasi wrote...

MerinTB wrote...

Jae Onasi wrote...
This is not a news article, it's an op-ed essay pretending to be a news article.  I would recommend looking at the original meeting minutes instead of McKinley's very opinionated review of the meeting.  I'm sure it'll be far more enlightening.

Let's try another view on it then, shall we?

http://www.huffingto...u_n_498003.html

Huffington Post is is an extremely liberal organization--I take what they say with a pound of salt just like I take what Fox news says with a pound of salt.  The title alone 'Texas Textbook Massacre', tells me right off the bat that where they're going, and it's certainly not in the direction of 'objective reporting of the news'.  This is no better than what McKinley did.


And Wikipedia is useless, and you can't believe anything a used car salesman says, and stereotypical logical fallacy argument number 12...

Forget the source of my link for a moment -
LOOK AT THE DIRECT QUOTES, not just from people who were at the meeting and reporting on it, BUT FROM THE COMMITTEE MEMBERS THEMSELVES.

Dismiss the Huffington Post all you want.  Dismiss me, too, while you are at it.  Poison the well.  You aren't attacking the argument, you aren't disagreeing with it on the merits - you are dismissing the whole link I gave just because of where it was from.  That's a logical fallacy - and it weakens your argument by using it.

Inside the first slide of the Huffington Post article I linked to is a link to where they got that information from - http://tfninsider.or...dies-debate-iv/

The second slide (in order at the site AND from what I was quoting) is the direct quotes from the board member - again, here for you to dismiss as "liberal propaganada" are the EXACT WORDS OF DAVID BRADELY -

“I reject the notion by the left of a constitutional
separation of church and state,” said David Bradley, a conservative from
Beaumont who works in real estate. “I have $1,000 for the charity of
your choice if you can find it in the Constitution.”


The third quote I use links to another article (yes, on the Huffington Post) that is from the ASSOCIATED PRESS (that old lefty network) as it's source.

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So you ignored the points I made and attacked my link for being from a "liberal organziation" even though the link is referencing other sources that are NOT liberal organizations but just news agencies.  I wasn't linking to a BLOG, I was linking to a series of links to OTHER NEWS ARTICLES and SOURCES.

You "despair at what journalism has become" because of one guy, in your
opinion, editorializing and depicting things in a certain skewed
lighting - but then you do exactly the same thing.
I gave you several
different sources through one link of people seeing this in a very bad
light.  It's not one guy.  I'm not quoting one source, nor opinion pieces.  I'm doing what I'd think you'd want from a news source - giving you references to direct sources, not my opinions.

The rulings were horrible - that's my opinion.

Modifié par MerinTB, 17 mars 2010 - 09:32 .


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MerinTB wrote...
There are things we should be intolerant of, though.  People should not be tolerant just to be PC or "open minded."  If you have people out there who believe vampires are real, they need help - or, in some cases, ridicule is the only way to go.  Yes, ridicule.  Sometimes some beliefs are so bad that arguing against them just gives them some sense of crediibility and the only answer is humor - to mock them.

I don't like when any PERSON is being treated with intolerance - but wacky beliefs about ridiculous things (I think most of us can agree that Scientology, the scam perpetrated on people by a science fiction author who's medical scam was about to be prosecuted so he quickly definied it as not science but religion and therefore the government couldn't touch him) deserve to be torn to shreds.


Who are you to say that a certain belief is right or wrong? Do you know absolutely everything about the world there is to know? You say we need to ridicule some beliefs for being wrong. That is being intolerant. This exact same mentality is the same mentality for many of the religious groups that are fighting. They are right, the other religion is wrong, and they must convert or die. You might not be suggesting something so extreme, but the the underlying thought is the same.

This is a strawman - most secular people will hold most religious beliefs as, at best, mildly amusing.  Christians like to play the victims in America when they are the majority with more power than any other group in America.  Why does it seem that Christians get more press and more criticism is explicitly because they are the largest religious group in America - if Hindus were the largest group, outside of us probably having to have civil rights legislation to get us out from an onerous and inhumane caste system, Hindus would get the most attention from secular humanists / agonistics / atheists / other religious groups.  When your the big dog, you draw the most attention.


You make a good point that in the US Christianity is the biggest religous group in America, and therefore gets more criticism as such. However, just because it is the biggest doesn't mean people should be intolerant against it either. Intolerance is intolerance, size doesn't change that fact; it merely changes how many people are receptive to the intolerance. Also, some would argue that the caste system in India is more of a political culture than religious, but I digress.

You can take all the issue you like.  As was mentioned earlier, most of my history studies were on the history of various religions.  Religious beliefs are the number one cause cited, historically, for wars and genocide.  While you can argue that other motivations, perhaps greater ones for those in power and calling the shots, existed (wanting more land / resources, disliking people who were different than them, just a way to keep and/or exert power), the rank and file were mostly motivated by their religious beliefs to take up arms for the fight.  While in the 20th Century nationalism became something of a religious fervor, causing a lot of fighting in Europe (and a couple World Wars), most of the fighting in the world still today is between different religious groups.


I would argue those other motivations. I would even argue that religion wasn't a cause for any of those wars, but a tool used in those wars. For the cause of those wars, it wasn't religion itself, but an intolerance of religion, or more specifically, an intolerance of culture. Religion is an easy way for people to convince others to be intolerant. If you can make people intolerant of a culture, they are much more
willing to go to war with them. Religion was used as a tool by the people who wanted power, control, land, etc.

While there are teachings in most religions about peace and non-violence, there are just as many teachings about violence and intolerance.  I won't bore you with chapter and verse from the Torah, the Bible, the Koran, where Yaweh / Elom / God / Allah tells the faithful to smite these people or dash the heads of the babies of that people or stone those witches or kill those unfaithful... you know they are there.


I have an issue with how you said this. The way you present it across, you make it sound as if more teachings and verses about violence and intolerance than about peace and non-violence. That might be true if you count every prophet, text, and religious figure, but that isn't an accurate way to describe a religion. A religion isn't everyone that is within the religion, it is a set of standards and beliefs; the set of standards and beliefs it holds most dear. Those standards and beliefs is set by a heirarchy of power. Someone lower in the heirarchy does not superscede someone higher. In Catholicism, many people would believe the Pope is at top, and his saying and teachings are with him. He is the highest of who is alive, but if you count the dead Jesus, the Virgin Mary, Moses, and various other prophets are above him. As such I would say that the teachings of killing and violence in many religions is not valid if it contradicts the teachings of people higher in the religious heirarchy. Those teachings are from corrupt individuals who don't follow their religion's own teaching to further their own agenda.

I'll end by saying that just because some religious people of a certain religious belief practice and espouse peace and non-violence doesn't forgive the large numbers who practice violence and hatred.  And if you think the numbers aren't large, go watch Jesus Camp, watch some televised content from the Mega Churches, read some indepth articles about what is taught at radical madrassas...
while there are plenty of nice people who are Christian or Muslim (or any other religion), there are many who are not very nice and most of those hold their negative views from their religious beliefs.


Once again, I take issue with how you said this. You make it sound as is more people practice violence and hatred than peace and non-violence. I don't know if that was your intent, but it sounded that way, and I disagree with that notion. Anyway, I agree that the people who practice violence and hatred should not be excused. I am not trying to excuse them. I believe you should put the blame on those people, not on the religion itself. You could take issue with a religion if you believe the top of the heirarchy is teaching violence and hatred. The top of the heirarchy is determined by the people of the religion. There are few Christian religions where Jesus isn't at top of the heirarchy, or Islamic religions where Muhammad isn't at top, or Buddist religions where Buddah isn't at top.

Don't think I'm unfairly picking on religion, though.  Nationalism and patriotism hold equal places in my mind for "more harm than good usually comes from these beliefs."


Would Marxism, Communism, and Fascism also hold equal places? They have just as equally poor records.

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Sylvius the Mad wrote...

Why not just "good morning"?  Why do we need that address tacked on the end?


Simple acknowledgement that as a (potential?) customer, you're deserving of a measure of respect.

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MerinTB wrote...

So you ignored the points I made and attacked my link for being from a "liberal organziation" even though the link is referencing other sources that are NOT liberal organizations but just news agencies.  I wasn't linking to a BLOG, I was linking to a series of links to OTHER NEWS ARTICLES and SOURCES.

You "despair at what journalism has become" because of one guy, in your
opinion, editorializing and depicting things in a certain skewed
lighting - but then you do exactly the same thing.
I gave you several
different sources through one link of people seeing this in a very bad
light.  It's not one guy.  I'm not quoting one source, nor opinion pieces.  I'm doing what I'd think you'd want from a news source - giving you references to direct sources, not my opinions.

The rulings were horrible - that's my opinion.


Wait, wait, wait. Be careful with what you're saying. Technically there has only been one source. There has only been 2 links posted on the thread for this. Both of those links send you to an opinion article, and they post a source for their information. Their source is exactly the same, which you posted. Additionally, did you bother to check out their main site?

TFN's mission statement is:

The Texas Freedom Network advances a mainstream agenda of religious
freedom and individual liberties to counter the religious right.


That sounds that they might have an agenda to their organization. Additionally, they never claim they are a news agency, as you suggest. In fact, on their main site, the link to TFN Insider, which is what the source of the information was from, is a blog.

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Jae Onasi wrote...

MerinTB wrote...
And Wikipedia is useless, and you can't believe anything a used car salesman says, and stereotypical logical fallacy argument number 12...

Forget the source of my link for a moment -
LOOK AT THE DIRECT QUOTES, not just from people who were at the meeting and reporting on it, BUT FROM THE COMMITTEE MEMBERS THEMSELVES.

Right.  I'll look at the committee minutes themselves.  I don't need Fox, Huffington Post, or assorted other groups mis-quoting or leaving things out intentionally to spin it the way they want.  News organizations have become notorious for doing that in the the last 10 years. 

MerlinTB wrote...
Dismiss the Huffington Post all you want.  Dismiss me, too, while you are at it.  Poison the well.  You aren't attacking the argument, you aren't disagreeing with it on the merits - you are dismissing the whole link I gave just because of where it was from.  That's a logical fallacy - and it weakens your argument by using it.

I'm well aware of what logical fallacies. I'm also aware that McKinley is intentionally biasing his essay because he clearly doesn't like what's going on in TX. That's not journalism, that's opinion. My argument was not what Texas was doing was right/wrong. My argument was that McKinley was doing a biased and crappy job of reporting this for the NYTimes, and obviously had an agenda. A lot of people took him at his word, and they need to think about HOW things are presented, not just WHAT. People need to take this into consideration when reading this article.

MerlinTB wrote...

The second slide (in order at the site AND from what I was quoting) is the direct quotes from the board member - again, here for you to dismiss as "liberal propaganada"

Please show me in my post where I once used 'liberal propaganada [sic]'.

Hint: I never used it once, spelled correctly or incorrectly.

MerlinTB wrote... are the EXACT WORDS OF DAVID BRADELY -

“I reject the notion by the left of a constitutional
separation of church and state,” said David Bradley, a conservative from
Beaumont who works in real estate. “I have $1,000 for the charity of
your choice if you can find it in the Constitution.”

Bradley is correct, technically, although I think his point is obviously lost on McKinley and others who don't know their Constitution well. NOWHERE in the Constitution does it ever mention 'separation of church and state'. That came well after the Constitution was ratified, and it came from a letter by Jefferson to the Danbury Baptist Association in 1802 (see link here at US Constitution online). I think Bradley makes a mountain out of a molehill, and so does McKinley.


MerlinTB wrote...
So you ignored the points I made and attacked my link for being from a "liberal organziation" even though the link is referencing other sources that are NOT liberal organizations but just news agencies.  I wasn't linking to a BLOG, I was linking to a series of links to OTHER NEWS ARTICLES and SOURCES.

Next time, just link the primary sources then, instead of relying on the Huffington Post (or Fox News, or biased source of choice) to do the analysis for you.

MerlinTB wrote...
You "despair at what journalism has become" because of one guy, in your
opinion, editorializing and depicting things in a certain skewed
lighting - but then you do exactly the same thing.

If you are assuming that I would actually pretend to be a professional journalist on a gaming forum, you've made an error. I made no claim whatsoever to being one, and your assumption that I was somehow doing this is completely incorrect. This is a gaming forum and I'm expressing my opinion on what I think about this article. I assume any member's posts here are opinions, unless they're developers providing us with game information.


MerlinTBThe rulings were horrible - that's my opinion.

I sure as hell hope you're not writing my kids' textbooks if you think all those rulings are "horrible". Providing up-to-date and accurate historical information is hardly "horrible". Did this panel try to skew some stuff in a more conservative direction? Yes. However, providing students with accurate information on the Reagan era or the Civil Rights movement is absolutely essential to understanding some of the issues that affect us today, including health care reform (the conservative movement in the 80's killed major changes in the health care system for 2 decades), race issues, and immigration to name just a few.


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