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[thepiebaker]

alright so what i'm asking is for validation as to wither or not im doing the right thing

ok so there is this girl, lets call her lightening temper... long story
short i think she's my soul mate and if she was next to me this very
second i would be on one knee... she's a junior in highschool, and her
parents hate my guts and have forced us apart... and well out of my
frustration with many different things i have done some stupid things
without thinking them through and wound up hurting this girl... since
the beginning of the summer of '09 i've been trying to get the
opportunity to fix these mistakes... she has allot of mixed feelings
about the situation and doesn't know what to make out of all of it. when
she sees me she runs, when friends mention me, she gets angry at
them... i can tell she's in allot of pain and is desperate to do
anything to stop the pain... beneath it all i can still tell that she
still loves me... i've always been able to read her like an open
children book... and well i've talked with my therapist earlier today
and he convinced me to give up on her... and he told me to try going out
with this one girl, spirit, i sit next to in english class... so when i
got home i sent her an email asking her if she wants to go see a movie
this weekend...

now i feel like i'm betraying lightening
temper... am i doing the right thing?

[Baracuda6977]

u see a therapist in high school? ur not in college are you?

[Skynet877]

thepiebaker wrote...

alright so what i'm asking is for validation as to wither or not im doing the right thing

ok so there is this girl, lets call her lightening temper... long story
short i think she's my soul mate and if she was next to me this very
second i would be on one knee... she's a junior in highschool, and I'm a 41 year old man, I know there is an age gap, but love has no age. her
parents hate my guts and have forced us apart... and well out of my
frustration with many different things i have done some stupid things
without thinking them through and wound up hurting this girl... since
the beginning of the summer of '09 i've been trying to get the
opportunity to fix these mistakes... she has allot of mixed feelings
about the situation and doesn't know what to make out of all of it. when
she sees me she runs, when friends mention me, she gets angry at
them... i can tell she's in allot of pain and is desperate to do
anything to stop the pain... beneath it all i can still tell that she
still loves me... i've always been able to read her like an open
children book... and well i've talked with my therapist earlier today
and he convinced me to give up on her... and he told me to try going out
with this one girl, spirit, i sit next to in english class... so when i
got home i sent her an email asking her if she wants to go see a movie
this weekend...

now i feel like i'm betraying lightening
temper... am i doing the right thing?

I stopped reading after that...

Modifié par Skynet877, 16 mars 2010 - 01:32 .

[Skynet877]

Now my serious reply: You and your Junior friend can still be friends, she will forgive you in time, and when she does, you can be friends. I was in the exact same predicament you were in. She still doesn't return my phone calls, but we do hang out again and talk online still. Go out with the girl in your English class, don't feel bad.

[Highdragonslayer]

How old are you?

[Skynet877]

randumb vanguard wrote...

Skynet877 wrote...

thepiebaker wrote...

alright so what i'm asking is for validation as to wither or not im doing the right thing

ok so there is this girl, lets call her lightening temper... long story
short i think she's my soul mate and if she was next to me this very
second i would be on one knee... she's a junior in highschool, and I'm a 41 year old man, I know there is an age gap, but love has no age. her
parents hate my guts and have forced us apart... and well out of my
frustration with many different things i have done some stupid things
without thinking them through and wound up hurting this girl... since
the beginning of the summer of '09 i've been trying to get the
opportunity to fix these mistakes... she has allot of mixed feelings
about the situation and doesn't know what to make out of all of it. when
she sees me she runs, when friends mention me, she gets angry at
them... i can tell she's in allot of pain and is desperate to do
anything to stop the pain... beneath it all i can still tell that she
still loves me... i've always been able to read her like an open
children book... and well i've talked with my therapist earlier today
and he convinced me to give up on her... and he told me to try going out
with this one girl, spirit, i sit next to in english class... so when i
got home i sent her an email asking her if she wants to go see a movie
this weekend...

now i feel like i'm betraying lightening
temper... am i doing the right thing?

I stopped reading after that...

he never said that...

lol

[Wicked 702]

Dude assuming you're in high school, I hate to break the news to you but all this is essentially irrelevant in real life. Once you get to college, things and experiences are going to present themselves to you that are beyond anything you can imagine. I know books like Twilight are written to make teenagers feel like their problems are relevant but trust me man, they're really not. The cold reality is that even if you both were madly in love with each other and everything was great, there's still only a small chance that you would be together in the long run. Considering you aren't....

Just sayin'

[Gorthaur the Cruel]

I will never understand why people ask strangers for help with very personal issues.

[addiction21]

Solostran85 wrote...

I will never understand why people ask strangers for help with very personal issues.

Stupidity.

Modifié par addiction21, 16 mars 2010 - 04:28 .

[thepiebaker]

Highdragonslayer wrote...

How old are you?

she's 17 i'm 19 a freshman at the local community college

Solostran85 wrote...

I will never understand why people
ask strangers for help with very personal issues.

because sometimes strangers are the best people to ask for advice because they see the situation on an unbiased level

randumb vanguard wrote...

thepiebaker wrote...

alright
so what i'm asking is for validation as to wither or not im doing the
right thing

ok so there is this girl, lets call her lightening
temper... long story
short i think she's my soul mate and if she was
next to me this very
second i would be on one knee... she's a
junior in highschool, and her
parents hate my guts and have forced
us apart... and well out of my
frustration with many different
things i have done some stupid things
without thinking them through
and wound up hurting this girl... since
the beginning of the summer
of '09 i've been trying to get the
opportunity to fix these
mistakes... she has allot of mixed feelings
about the situation and
doesn't know what to make out of all of it. when
she sees me she
runs, when friends mention me, she gets angry at
them... i can tell
she's in allot of pain and is desperate to do
anything to stop the
pain... beneath it all i can still tell that she
still loves me...
i've always been able to read her like an open
children book... and
well i've talked with my therapist earlier today
and he convinced me
to give up on her... and he told me to try going out
with this one
girl, spirit, i sit next to in english class... so when i
got home i
sent her an email asking her if she wants to go see a movie
this
weekend...

now i feel like i'm betraying lightening
temper...
am i doing the right thing?

If she still loves you she
might come 'round eventually
You said she runs away from you? how
long has she been doing this? If its been over a few months then I think
it wouldn't be betrayal at all.

Keep in mind you probably
shouldn't take advice from people who don't date. so... what I said
above is rendered invalid.

well i tried talking to in person twice in september, i, at the time, was not fully aware of what was going on with her, just knew that she was pissed at something about me... first time we actually talked she didnt give me much indication on what was going on... i went three days later to catch her before she got on her buss afterschool and she literally ran from me... ever since then i've sent like 3 facebook messages apologizing for everything i could, telling her that all i wanted was to be friends again, and if it was possible i would love to date her again... no clue if she read them or just deleated them... her ex best friend offered to be a liaison between me and her. she tells me that lightening temper just has to settle some uneasy ground between her and her parents, who might be the real cause of all of this... no clue how long that would take and some rumors have popped up that has made it even less likly that she'd come and talk to me again... thats when my therapist told me to move on

and yes i've been seeing a therapist for years now, since i was a freshman i believe... i've been suffering from a major case of depression to the point where i have stood of the ledges of buildings before

Modifié par thepiebaker, 16 mars 2010 - 02:15 .

[xxr]

I'm gonna have to agree with Wicked up there. In a few years you'll understand how teenage relationships are pretty dumb altogether. I don't mean to insult anyone, but that's just the way it is. =/

[Godak]

I have a question for the TC...Do you have a problem with letting you sentences run all the way to the end of the text box? Are you scared that the words will bump their heads?

[thepiebaker]

Godak wrote...

I have a question for the TC...Do you have a problem with letting you sentences run all the way to the end of the text box? Are you scared that the words will bump their heads?

for some reason they did that on their own

[Godak]

thepiebaker wrote...

Godak wrote...

I have a question for the TC...Do you have a problem with letting you sentences run all the way to the end of the text box? Are you scared that the words will bump their heads?

for some reason they did that on their own

...That's what they all say.

[Busomjack]

I sympathize with this guy. I'm 26 but damn some of those high school girls are irresistible. Especially when they wear those midriff exposing tops and short shorts that show off their tight bodies and silky smooth skin.

[thepiebaker]

Skynet877 wrote...

randumb vanguard wrote...

Skynet877 wrote...

thepiebaker wrote...

alright so what i'm asking is for validation as to wither or not im doing the right thing

ok so there is this girl, lets call her lightening temper... long story
short i think she's my soul mate and if she was next to me this very
second i would be on one knee... she's a junior in highschool, and I'm a 41 year old man, I know there is an age gap, but love has no age. her
parents hate my guts and have forced us apart... and well out of my
frustration with many different things i have done some stupid things
without thinking them through and wound up hurting this girl... since
the beginning of the summer of '09 i've been trying to get the
opportunity to fix these mistakes... she has allot of mixed feelings
about the situation and doesn't know what to make out of all of it. when
she sees me she runs, when friends mention me, she gets angry at
them... i can tell she's in allot of pain and is desperate to do
anything to stop the pain... beneath it all i can still tell that she
still loves me... i've always been able to read her like an open
children book... and well i've talked with my therapist earlier today
and he convinced me to give up on her... and he told me to try going out
with this one girl, spirit, i sit next to in english class... so when i
got home i sent her an email asking her if she wants to go see a movie
this weekend...

now i feel like i'm betraying lightening
temper... am i doing the right thing?

I stopped reading after that...

he never said that...

lol

Busomjack wrote...

I sympathize with this guy. I'm 26 but
damn some of those high school girls are irresistible. Especially when
they wear those midriff exposing tops and short shorts that show off
their tight bodies and silky smooth skin.

something tells me you two visit 4chan... i'd be more specific but then id be breaking rules 1 and 2

now im not saying that its bad that you do... heck i'm currently banned from there myself, have 23 days left

[Busomjack]

I don't know anything about 4 chan. All I know is that I live near a high school and when I go to the mall after school those high school girls provide some of the most amazing eye candy imaginable.



Then again some of them do look too young. It's not illegal to look though is it?

[thepiebaker]

Busomjack wrote...

I don't know anything about 4 chan. All I know is that I live near a high school and when I go to the mall after school those high school girls provide some of the most amazing eye candy imaginable.

Then again some of them do look too young. It's not illegal to look though is it?

its not illegal but if i was their dad i'd beat your ass up and down the mall until you started screaming "im a fairy princess!!!"

[thepiebaker]

randumb vanguard wrote...

thepiebaker wrote...

Busomjack wrote...

I don't know anything about 4 chan. All I know is that I live near a high school and when I go to the mall after school those high school girls provide some of the most amazing eye candy imaginable.

Then again some of them do look too young. It's not illegal to look though is it?

its not illegal but if i was their dad i'd beat your ass up and down the mall until you started screaming "im a fairy princess!!!"

(randumb vanguard refrence)

i thought you'd like that