Skynet877 wrote...
I care about this girl and she said a week ago that she would tell me if she'll start a relationship with me. She says she loves me but doesn't know what to do. Last Sunday she said she would tell me on last Monday, but she never did. She still says she is thinking though! I'm pissed and upset and I don't want anything to do with her if she keeps this up. I'm thinking about telling her to make up her mind or I'm gone. She clearly doesn't truly love me if she is going to take two weeks (or more) to even give me an answer, after saying she would a week ago.
1st off your looking to get flamed by posting this on an open forum. This is something you talk with a close friend about not strangers. I see from you statement though you must not have any close friends to speak of or too. Either you are very young or very weak willed, and way to emotional.
If this girl is not giving you a straight answer on her own without you pressuring her she obviously is not that serious about you. If she had feelings and you have been pesturing her she is most likely 2nd guessing what she originally thought was attractive about you. A little advice Women don't like whipped men that follow them around like puppy dogs.
I would drop her like a box of rocks, and move on. Show some inner strength, and character. !!! Back off from her, go on some dates with someone new, and let her know she is not the end all and be all of your existence. If she really cares about you she will miss you and chase after you then the ball is in your court whether you want to give her a chance. Now that my advice is over go talk to a friend or buy one if you don't have any, and quit opening yourself to emotional and mental attacks on this open forum that could fracture your fragile pcychie.
@Dark Lilith I couldn't have said it better myself.
Modifié par darkshadow136, 19 mars 2010 - 01:36 .