II That Burn In Ya Ass II wrote...
Wait so im suppose to save the mirror for the part at the FINAL battle then give it to her ??
Can you try an explain the step by step to romance both lileana and morrigan?
First of all, it's the golden mirror, not silver mirror -- you buy it from Garin the merchant in Orzammar Commons. If you're not using the PC version (and thus can't use the Morrigan Mod), and if you want a chance at the Ring Epilogue in DAO AND the Awakening Epilogue, then yes, you must save the golden mirror and never give it to Morrigan until after the Final Battle, in the post-epilogue Camp. If you've already given it to her, then giving it to her again won't trigger the dialogue that takes her back to "love." And if she's not at "love," you don't get the Awakening dialogue.
Again, however, particularly since you also want to romance Leliana, you won't get the Awakening dialogue if you go traveling with Leliana (or Zevran) at the end of DAO, even if Morrigan is at "love."
As for romancing both (and speaking for myself, I'm really trying to cure myself of doing that -- as Leliana says, it's really disrespectful to both):
There are more ways than one, I think. But the key lies in realizing that each character will do the "jealousy" dialogue only once, and romance with each character can be rekindled after it's been broken off. But you have to make sure that you don't use the "rekindling" item before you break off the romance
With Leliana, completing her Marjolaine quest will let you rekindle the romance. For Morrigan, giving her the golden mirror will let you rekindle the romance. So if you can't use the Morrigan Mod, you can see why romancing both Morrigan and Leliana will be a problem if you want to reset Morrigan to "love" after the final battle.
So, for example:
1. Romance Morrigan immediately after she joins your party -- just take her to Camp, do all her dialogues, and tell her everything she wants to hear. (Basically agree that life is about survival, only the strong survive, love is for weaklings, etc.).
2. Meet Leliana at Lothering. Do her dialogues and get her approval up high. Enter and leave camp if necessary, and keep talking until she admits that she lied to you about her reasons for leaving Orlais.
3. Not sure you can actually romance Leliana at this stage, but Morrigan will still get jealous. Once Leliana tells you about Marjolaine, check in with Morrigan. If necessary keep working on Leliana's approval, but do not under any circumstances complete her Marjolaine quest. At some point Morrigan will get jealous and force you to choose.
4. Choose Morrigan. Talk to Leliana and be as gentle as you can. She'll be hurt, but understanding.
5. Now complete Leliana's quest. After she's confessed to you, your next random encounter in your world travels will be with Assassins who have been sent to kill Leliana. After that, go find Marjolaine in Denerim and kill her. Make sure Leliana's approval is close to 100.
6. When you talk to Leliana next in camp, you'll be able to reactivate the romance. However, now Leliana is jealous of Morrigan and makes you choose. You have to choose Leliana this time.
7. At this point the only way to reactivate the romance with Morrigan is to give her the golden mirror. I enjoyed doing Morrigan's personal quest (killing Flemeth) first, because her dialogue about friendship afterwards is some of the best in the game.