Time to respond to the whole "Big Bad Morri" thing...
Since you keep bringing up bedding Morrigan, putting aside the fact that it takes two to tango, Morrigan's romance has, to my recollection 3 separate entry points, only one of which is based around sex, with the others it is entirely possible to get to the DR without sleeping with her at all-
-"'Tis cold in my tent", I'm sure you're aware of this one
-Golden Mirror, a gift item you can happen upon after hearing her story on the matter can allow you to enter a romance
-After slaying Flemeth, if you are not in a romance with her, she will broach the subject in a much more heartfelt manner that is more inline with where her character development leads at that late stage of the game. This path is probably the most satisfying imo.
Ashwind:
Yes, she will bed you early on: I have a playthrough where she will proposition you right after you give her the First grimoire. But at that point, she's not romanced, she's looking for a fu.... er I mean, sexual intercourse buddy. As previously stated, she has certain base desires, and sees the Warden as the best option here. She is in no way, shape or form in a romance with the Warden. She wants a warm body on a cold night and its either the Warden or Sten... and we all know how that turns out lol.
As for the Witch Hunt stuff you mentioned earlier (not quoting you as I already have too many quotes), part of the reason that it exists was to correct the fact that there is zero resolution for players that romanced her in Origins within the main campaign itself, (and she also didn't send HoF a letter in Awakening) which comes back to the cut content aspects of the DR. Was it short? Sure, but it also affords numerous roleplay opportunities throughout the module to deepen the romance through interactions with Ariane, Dog and so on, and that's more than any of the other romances got. A romance arc is not just the sum total of interactions between two parties, a good one will involve other factors/parties and play off of them. WH did this when this Ariane brings up the Warden's habit of playing with Morrigan's ring as well as several other places.
Ashwind:
Witch Hunt cannot be judged on its content, per se. It was... I hesitate to use the term it was to correct a mistake, but to give resolution to the Morrigan Romancer. I liked Finn and Ariane actually, and would have much rather had Ariane in DAI than Sera. As I have previsously stated, Morrigan's actions at the end of DAO are just, forced and seemingly more writer's trap than story progression. She has to leave, no matter what... no reason is given, its just because, you know! Then whenever in the timeline in which WH occurs, her absolute need for complete and total separation from the Warden is evicierated and its, lets get married and raise our OGB.
Surface level analysis yet again. You'll understand Morrigan a lot better if you have/had a similar personality to her irl, or know someone who does. This really comes down to being yet another veiled variation on the "I don't like Morrigan because she's mean, I like Leliana because she's nice" theme and I can't even begin to tell you how wrong that is and how transparent it is. Every point you make is coloured by this bias, intentionally or not.
Morrigan operates primarily on two levels - the person she thinks she needs to be, influenced mostly by Flemeth and the other side of her, which is at odds with the first, is the side where she allows her feelings and heart to take hold. The second has largely reconciled itself with the first when DAI begins, through HoF/Kieran, life at the Orlesian court and of course the developments with Flemeth during Origins as well as the passage of time, but she still keeps her feelings to herself by and large. This isn't just theory anymore, it is factually supported and played upon by DAI's content. The takeaway being, as has always been the case, only those who are genuinely close to her get to see that side, so HoF/Kieran for example, but you (as the inquisitor) can also see it shine through the cracks if they come up in conversation. You also see hints of it as early as DA:O in Wynne's second conversation with the Warden about Morrigan, where she's says something to the effect of that she sometimes catches Morrigan smiling fondly while looking at the Warden.
With regards Morrigan's barbed words, again a lot of us like Morrigan precisely because she is a challenging character, both as a companion and as HoF's lover, we don't need or desire a squad of yes men (or yes women) that exist in perfect harmony and deference to the player's will, that's boring, tedious and overdone. It should come as little surprise to you that those of us who frequent the Morri thread also employ sarcastic barbs, dry humour and irony on a regular basis. Morrigan's attitude and demeanour are the result of her upbringing and environment. You witness the internal struggle that takes place within her at several points in DAO and witness the end result in DAI.
And lastly - why does it matter that she doesn't get along with everyone? I personally loved the two instances that Wynne challenges you on your relationship with Morrigan, the first, well it's not far removed from the arguments you're making right now, truth be told. So, even here, Morrigan's inability to gel with the rest of the team brings fresh perspective and more flavour to the romance and by extension her character - I love the implication that Alistair and Leliana are befuddled as to why the HoF likes Morrigan so much, which again plays off HoF's friendship with Alistair. Think about how the fact that Morrigan and the Warden are lovers affects the best-buddies thing that HoF has going on with Alistair, who hates her.
Ashwind:
This is one thing I've never understood from posters who dislike Morrigan. Does she have a sharp tongue? Aboslutely, its one of her endearing qualities. And yet, when other's tear into her, its OK. Alistair hates her from the onset, but she's supposed to kiss his former templar ass, and not respond? Leliana gives barbs as well as she gets. Wynn is a judgemental, lecturing annoyance who talks down to her... AND is literally her polar opposite, its only natural that they would be in conflict with one another... but Morri is just supposed to take her BS because she's grandmotherly? Sten and Shale also insult her, but she should just say, hehehe, thank you. This is NOT something my Witch of the Wilds would tolerate!!
And as I'm listing just a few examples off the top of my head, you should be noticing that Morrigan's romance is considerably more far-reaching than you seem to think it is, here's my warden's complete story pertaining to Morrigan from DAO through WH:
-Post-DAO, the Warden needs some consoling via his good friend Alistair, but wait, Alistair hates Morrigan, so what does he have to say - "There, there buddy, I totally feel for you. I'm *REALLY* sorry that damn bitc-Uh, I mean, that nice 'Witch' Morrigan ran off but there's no need to cry about it." That leads into HoF striking out to find Morrigan but very quickly being required to deal with the situation in Amarathine, leading into...
-Awakening- My HoF shows up, he's a little annoyed at the whole situation because he wants to find Morrigan and get some answers, but duty calls. But that desire, I allow it to colour HoF's actions in Awakening, unlike in DAO, I have him take direct, affirmative and definitive action on things with a view to ending the whole thing as quickly and effectively as possible. This ultimately isn't possible because the whole situation is bigger than my HoF anticipated and thus takes him longer to bring a close to the whole thing. When everything is wrapped up, he's made some hard choices, stepped on some people to bring a close to the whole thing and is ultimately ready to go back to his own personal quest.
-WH - after a unsuccessful search for Morri, eventually a lead is discovered, and it carries on from there.
Ashwind:
Mine is similar, and yet different. At the end of DAO, my Warden thanks Morrigan for all she has done and accepts that she is off. Saying she is dead too him his too strong, but he is accepting of the fact that he will not see her again, or... his child... (unless they threaten the world, in which case he would have been first on the scene). He goes to Amaranthine with a determination to make a difference. As usual, he makes non-warden-esque decisions, because he has not only has a 6th sense, but a 7th, 8th and 9th sense. Recruits his family's mortal enemy, Nathaniel Howe; hires the Dark Wolf; kills most of the nobles of Amaranthine, spares the Architect; and chooses to save Amaranthine. After the battle for Amaranthine, he lets the Disciple that helped him live (how perfect is it that he becomes the batman of Amarathine???).
After the chaos of Awakening is when my Warden feels, through the ring he's never removed, Morrigan's sorrow and regret. That is what leads him on his quest to find her in WH, and ultimately to go through the Eluvian with her.
The game doesn't necessarily support or recognise a lot of these things, but I'm able to RP my increasingly annoyed HoF over the course of the campaigns pretty effectively, adding a different spin to the expansion content before he is able to reach his end goal by the end, and thankfully Bioware tossed in quite a lot of Morri-romance relevant stuff in WH. So tell me, when Leliana left your HoF at the end of Origins, how did that factor into your playthrough of the expansion?
From personal experience working on her dialog files, I'd have to disagree, there's no less than any other party member, probably more if you count restored content. Can you back up these claims that Leliana has more dialogue, understanding that you'll then have to go on to demonstrate that quantity > quality?
Unsurprisingly, given that this is the Morrigan thread, I could not disagree more. I feel that having the HoF coax out the hidden facets of Morrigan's personality and exposing that side of her to the real world elicited extensive personal growth in her from DAO-DAI. That alone eclipses anything I've seen from Leliana, so no, I do not agree that Leliana's romantic arc is more fun nor more rewarding than Morrigan's, quite the opposite in fact. Furthermore I reject the notion that Leliana is a more sympathetic character, at least once you look beyond the surface level. When you take into account how Morrigan was raised, the implications of what you see with her interactions with Flemeth in the fade (in Origins) you have an equally tragic character. Add to this how Flemeth wanted her to behave around men, the fact that she has no friends and is essentially alone in the world at that point with relatively poor social skills. While Morrigan puts on airs about this, you can see glimpses through conversations that in some ways she is still just a confused little girl, especially when measured against her mother. Like with the Cousland Origin, one can also look at how Morrigan was sent off with the wardens to be a form of abandonment, then later compounded into losing the only family she had when she learns of Flemeth's plans for her and being forced to take action.
As for Leliana being more funny, yeah, I again don't see it. I'll take the sarcastic barbs and the wordplay battles that HoF can have with Morrigan over the bard's tales, thanks. And hell, I like Leliana, if she was in any other game, I'd likely go for her, but she is no Morrigan, I'm afraid.
Ashwind:
Morrigan is not in DA to provide comic relief. She has a story arch and a potential impact on the PC. In DAO, Oghren is the comic relief. Not that she doesn't have some awesome lines. The banter with Zevran still sticks out to me: Zevran: ...Morrigan, how is it we have not made love? Morrigan: What's the point, I would rather stab you in the face.
Oh and it seems I forgot to mention one more minor detail that underlines Morrigan's romance and story - it ties into DAO thematically and thus the central story arc and her romance are both enriched through close association. Morrigan has links to: Flemeth, Wardens, Survival, Old Gods, HoF's son and so on. That Morrigan's regular life with her family has actually turned out pretty nicely for her despite her reservations is just the proverbial cherry on top, it has everything - ups and downs, tragedy, separation, two "families" torn apart, a reunion, shades of grey, the list goes on. I mentioned earlier about how it also enriches the dialogue with other companions so quite how you reach the conclusion that Morrigan's romance is lacking in content is beyond me. But maybe I'm wrong, maybe we've whipped ourselves into a tizzy over it for 5 years and it's actually just those 3 conversations you mention...
You do realise you are making our point for us now, don't you? It is precisely because of this inner conflict that makes her character and romance more endearing to us. The fact that if she leaves and you don't go with her through the Eluvian, then later in DAI she says that she returned to Ferelden to find HoF, combined with the sorrow & regret slides, that's pretty hard, melancholic stuff on the personal level and implies, no- proves that over time she's reconsidered what's really important to her.
Ashwind:
There is simply just 2 awesome lines across 2 different games that indicate the growth and the Warden's influence on Morrigan.
DAO: Morrigan: (to Leliana): I will say this, then we will speak of it no more (so defensive): Love is a disease, love is a cancer...
DAI Morrigan (romanced>Went through the Eluvian) ...I had a respite with the man I loved.
Clearly she is so defensive in DAO because love is what she is yearning for, but dismisses it because of how she was raised. She wants it, she likes it, but has been told for most of her life that its a weakness. Is there any other topic in all of DAO that she states definively, "...then we shall speak of this no more." #owned
Well this is leading into a larger discussion really since Ash brought up a few pages back that perhaps the reason Morrigan left in Origins was because that it was a preconceived idea/plot climax on the part of the writers, to the extent that the exact rationale behind it wasn't fully thought out, hence why we have just a wishy-washy "I have a plan, you can't come with me, bye." We have had this discussion before but with the Gaider interviews Ash mentioned and the info in Inquisition I'll probably get into the specifics of this again in the future.
Support this statement with evidence. Within the scope of DAO alone, that is one possible interpretation, and comes down to how much the Warden trusts her but it is ultimately proven false in DAI. A Morrigan who has had a child from DAO>DAI has changed and I have shown with in-game evidence in my large post several pages back that as of DAI, your statement is factually incorrect - Morrigan ultimately chooses her son's well-being over any power that he might hold, this is shown in-game and cannot be denied.
I don't mean to be insulting but with Morrigan, the wordplay, semantics and inflection used are extremely important in her dialogue and I'm wondering if you're missing the subtext due to a language barrier, based on your responses to Ash Wind, I believe this is the case. Like with this example, you seem to be focusing on the literal meaning of "misadventure" rather than the implied meaning of the sentence as a whole. Essentially, your understanding seems to be bound to the surface level of her dialogue rather than the real meaning hidden behind the words, and the ability to read between the lines to discern subtle truths is pretty much the crux of Morrigan's romance.
Additionally Ash also already pointed out Morrigan's exact final words at the gates of Denerim, "This could have been so much easier, and yet… I cannot regret what has happened between us…" which underline her true feelings on the matter. Misadventure is actually brought up much earlier in the romance and again context & the inflection used when she says it is what's important - it doesn't mean what you seem to think it does.
Good, I was pleased to have someone like Morrigan along for the ride, the game wouldn't be the same without her. You're free to dislike Morrigan but it shouldn't surprise you that people in this thread will be opposed to your stance on the matter and we've been doing this for years and have seen it all before. I personally feel that a lot of people that dislike her do so because they don't understand her (even the game toys with this at times), a situation which mirrors real life. My personal take on the matter is that your opinions are coloured by a preconception that "Leliana is nice, so I like her and Morrigan is mean, so I don't like her" and you're trying to fit everything within that foregone conclusion, but that won't pass muster with us.
While we're here, let's tackle the Morrigan is so mean, oh so cruel issue...
Morrigan is a pragmatist, so in real terms, with the darkspawn threat looming on the horizon you would not have time for solving every peasant's problem when your main goal is to halt the Blight's incursion. She simply acts as the voice on your shoulder, pointing out more expedient solutions to the problems that present themselves. "Oh what's that, Denerim got flattened? Too bad I was off playing matchmaker to Cammen and Gheyna..." Were time an actual factor in the Blight's progression, you'd be thanking her for keeping you focused on what's important. And yet, discovering that there is often a middle ground is also an important learning process for her as well and is a partial contributor to her changes over time. The only game I recall doing something like this would be Fallout 2, where if you messed about being the saviour to all instead of focusing on your main quest to get the water chip, your home village meets an undesirable end and you don't feel like much of hero when you eventually head home. While we don't see that level of reactivity in DAO, the implication is that it's there in the background. So if Morrigan needs to use sarcasm and a sharp tongue to open your eyes to that fact, so be it.
Ashwind:
The odd part about this is, in terms of Grey Wardens of the past, it’s fairly factual that Morrigan’s attitude is more reflective of the spirit of Grey Wardens than (at least my) Grey Warden. As Duncan states in the opening cut scene, Grey Warden’s do ANYTHING they feel they need to in order to defeat the blight. Towns have been burnt to the ground in the name of defeating the blight.
In most situations where she disapproves of (my) the Warden’s actions, are, quite frankly, most situations where most Grey Warden’s would disapprove of the Warden’s actions. Saving Redcliffe? Most GW would have burned the village to the ground and simply conscripted Arl Eamon’s knights as they returned… and would not have journeyed off on some hopeless quest, which countless others have failed at, to find the Ashes of Andraste… of course, because THE GW is a badass, he/she succeeds where others have failed. What if the Warden and or Alistair had been killed that night defending Redcliffe? Darkspawn win.
Most GWs would probably have saved the Anvil of the Void, and had an army of Golems at their disposal against the blight. My GW destroyed it because it imprisons living souls, and of course, Morrigan disapproved, and in terms of defeating the blight, she was probably more right than my character. But my canon Warden is a Cousland who greatly admired his father, and felt his father simply, would have found another way. Though, the word play was fun, when my GW asked her how she would like to become a golem, her reaction was priceless.
Other things she disagrees with are on par with what the GW creed is with respect to defeating the blight. No, the Warden shouldn’t be playing Elven dating game or searching for the blacksmith’s daughter. Most GW’s probably would have killed the mages and recruited the templars (mine didn’t and Morrigan disapproved).
The one time Morrigan thoroughly disappoints me (er, I mean my Warden) is near the end, where the creepy mage has Elven slaves, and in exchange for his life, he offers to slaughter the captive elves and increase the Warden’s power. Again, many GWs facing a blight might have accepted this dire choice, mine did not, and Morrigan disapproved, and that was a disappointment.
And if you want to focus on why she's tossing out insults and whatnot, it is a product of her upbringing, she has put up barriers around herself in DAO and adopted the frosty personality, both mistrustful and wary of others intentions. Her acerbic tone is just one aspect of this, to preemptively hurt others before they have the chance to hurt her, ie: a defense mechanism. Who knew that living in a swamp, hunted by templars and terrorised by your mother would screw you up...
And on that note, it was nice to see Morrigan get a chance at the extravagant opulence in Orlais within DAI without fear of Flemeth smashing all her possessions up. So no, Morrigan isn't quite as unsympathetic as you seem to think and I personally loved the fact that she expressed a genuine happiness with how things turned out with HoF in DAI. And that's why we love romanced Morrigan, she's a great character on her own but given the appropriate nudge, she's so much more.
And that's enough sappy crap from me for now.
So to wrap up and summarise- other people can see and appreciate aspects of a character that you either cannot or have yet to recognise, often through their own personal experiences. I'd say the most obvious recent example of this would be Gaider's work on Dorian, where aspects of that character's arc and romance would speak far more strongly to some sections of the audience than others. You say English isn't your first language so I don't know, maybe aspects and subtleties of her character are lost on you. To me, Morrigan's romance and story arc are one of the best I've experienced in a game. There's nothing wrong with liking one more than the other or preferring a simpler approach, but if you come into the Morrigan thread making statements like those you did above, expect to be called on it and for us to demonstrate why you're wrong.
Think of it like this- some stories have morals that you can take away from them - something that isn't necessarily readily apparent from the text itself, but it always present subtextually and that's of the case here with Morrigan too - it is layered, multi-faceted and works on multiple levels. Like when Ash got you with the Leliana kissy face jab, there's a place for relatively straightforward romances, but there are those us that enjoy strife, nuance and drama. We love the interplay of Morri's romance with her own goals and other interlinking plot arcs,
Well, that was fun, I'll respond to other stuff later.