Sarah1281 wrote...
Well, I can live with him being sad really. The only person that has ever openly accepted him has been killed off by Loghain along with all the guys that were his replacement family.
Well, yeah, but all of the Origins end horribly, too, and as a HN you even lost every single person you'd see on a regular basis either through Howe's treachery or at Ostagar so it kind of makes it harder to respect his chronic inability to put it behind him for the sake of the mission.
Not all of the origins have a horrible ending.
- The DEF origin is sad for you, because you have to leave your clan. But the clan has "only" lost 2 of their kin, of which one might return at some point in the future (sadly the clan you visit later is another). So it's hardly horrible.
- The DCF origin is in fact even a step up from what you had before. Your sister is (probably?) taken care of and is rid of her pimp. You don't have to dwell in Dust City any longer. Since you didn't have a caste to lose to begin with, being a topsider isn't really that horrible. It's arguable, but I think for a casteless Dwarf, getting to be a Warden is leaps and bounds ahead of staying in Orzammar.
- Mage origin isn't really horrible either. At least it isn't for me. You do still have close ties to the Circle. You don't really lose anything or anyone apart from having to leave that dreaded tower. Except Jowan of course, but there has not been one moment where I felt close to him anyway. So I guess Mage origin is more of a "lose one thing and gain another" ending. Neither happy nor sad.
- The City Elf origin.. well, it does make me cry. Shianni's fate really touches me. But again, it's not horrible as in "everyone dies" horrible.
So it's really just the DNF and HNF origins that turn out to be extremely horrible. And even then, Alistair basically has lost his family twice. First being sent off to the Chantry because he was a bastard child, then losing his replacement family to Loghain's treachery. And he has a very hard time getting to trust people, so because he trusts you, there will be a lot of emotions that haven't been processed yet.
I've said it before, you really have to be a mother for Alistair. I'm not the type for that. But his story isn't less horrible just because 2/6 PC origins are pretty scarring themselves. In fact, he even apologises for his "whining" when you bring up that your whole family has been murdered by Howe...
So as much as I lack respect for him, I do have to cut him some slack